Breadcrumbs by ex!

[Hope for hopeless]

Hi LS people,

 

My Bf left me bcz he wasnt sure Im not THE ONE!He loves me but,but maybe not in love with me.I dnt know.He mainly said I think I love you bcz you love me so much and you were great to me.Next time ,he says I miss you cnt leave without you.The cycle is making me crazy.I know him for such a longtime,and sure his indecision is making me crazy.He is also the type who like push and pull again.Anyway,I reached to the point that either this relationship should move to next level or we are better off.Anyway,some months passed and every other week ,he comes out with the idea to move to bigger commitment then he changes his mind. He is certainly doubtful and that scares me ,even if one day he takes the decision to stay and would be for wrong reasons,or basically not to hurt me.

 

Let me say I have also put alot of pressure on him to make up his mind,but now I backed off.But somehow I feel my life is in halt

 

Wanted to vent out or if anyone can shed some light on this situation.

[denxnis]

Why try to sell yourself to someone that doesn't know if they want to be with you? It's not that they don't want to be with you, it's that they want to try and be with other people as well.

[Hope for hopeless]

That's true.Just wanted to check if some people go into doubt zone when they wanna take a big step ,like marriage.I guess I'm trying to rationalize things.Love him alot,Sigh!