atomicdog Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Just wanted to get some opinions on this. Was waiting for a bus and a nice looking lass strolls up, gives me quick eye contact and sits nearby. Struck up a conversation and found out that she'd been doing political campaigning that day. Got on the bus with her (we were headed the same way) and found out that she was studying an arts degree including some philosophy, which really got me excited (I'm big into philosophy myself). Ended up getting off the bus with her and getting her name and number, and we walked together to the station. I had to go see my cousin and she had to go to a party. The following day we exchanged texts (which I'll post next). Toward the end of it I started feeling depressed and thinking she didn't really want to see me again or that she thought of me as just a friend. But that might've just been me (I hadn't eaten for a while, and when my blood sugar gets low I tend to get upset). So anyway, just wondering what you think. Do you reckon she feels the same way as I do? If not, do you think there was anything I could have done differently? Or do you think she just had second thoughts about me, and decided I wasn't the right guy for her? Let me know your thoughts. Th
Author atomicdog Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Me: Just so you've got my number cheers Her: That's great, thanks. Have a good night! Me: You too Me: I hope you had fun last night. I really want to meet you again. Me: I miss you and your cute accent... Her: Morning! I am now awake, and relatively sober, which is good. How was your evening? Me: Was good, we had a bit of a piano bash with the cousin and her gf Me: Off to "Australia gardens" Me: What are you up to? Me: Guess you're busy Her: Hi. Sorry to have been rude - i was playing soccer, and then we had a rather lovely team picnic. Where is australia garden? Me: No worries. Well treat em mean keep em keen as they say. Me: (kidding) Me: Yeah it's a 20 min drive from cranbourne, there are some aboriginal sites there, it's just a nice place to chill Her: That sounds lovely. Have you ever been to royal park? It's right by the cbd, but it's really big and full of lovely native trees. Me: Don't think so. Should go next time I'm in Melbourne. Apparently there were bower trees where we were. Only a few of those left in the area. Guess I didn't spot them lol Me: Might have gotten the name of that tree wrong Her: I've never heard of it, but that doesn't mean much really. So are you around in melbourne for a while? Me: Heading back to syd tonight, but I'll be down again in a couple of weeks Me: They're pretty cool trees whatever they're called, they have giant bulging branches for storing water Me: Ugh almost out of charge Her: Fair enough. I have to go anyway and try to deal with the month of uni work i neglected whilst campaigning. Have a good trip back! Me: Thanks, had a great time here, best with your studies
Author atomicdog Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Ughhh. I think I just realized where I stuffed up. When she started talking about the Royal Park, she must have been hinting that we should go there together. For whatever reason I assumed she meant that I should go alone. :( Maybe she now thinks I don't like her. Or maybe she really did mean that I should go alone. I wish I was better at reading people.
todreaminblue Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 No one wants to chime in? i have severe mood swings go really low, high the next and eating also affects me, i get petrified and i do mean that word of talking when i am low, because the simplest things can upset me, and those fears i have are negative and irrational...doesnt help i am schizo affective because then i get paranoid.......so i avoid asking questions..... you are being irrational and i know irrationality i am the queen ...so say hi queen and ill say hi king of irrationality...just talk to her...ask her out.....you will be ok.......what's the worse that can happen? dont answer that question, i just thought of ten things..;0). do it anyway..ask her out..face what you fear sometimes that fear then goes away with a smile and your shoulders stop being up around your ears....i wish you much luck and peace out..................deb
Author atomicdog Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Thanks for your kind words Deb. I guess I'll assume the positive and try to get a date hooked up for next weekend. At the very worst case, at least I got interest from one more girl than I had before this all happened.
WordvAction Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Dude way too many texts from you in a row; the texting ratio kinda makes you seem desperate, along with you saying what are you up to? Followed by a guess your busy. Bad, bad move man. More control, less "please respond to my texts". Also, do what the other poster said and just ask her out. No harm in that. 1
Author atomicdog Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Dude way too many texts from you in a row; the texting ratio kinda makes you seem desperate, along with you saying what are you up to? Followed by a guess your busy. Bad, bad move man. More control, less "please respond to my texts". You're right. I just found it hard to help myself because she didn't respond for about 5 hours while she was doing soccer and I just wanted to know whether she liked me or not instead of waiting in suspense. Maybe I need to install some app that will block me from messaging until I've waiting a certain amount of time. LOL Also, do what the other poster said and just ask her out. No harm in that. It's tricky because she's in a different state than me, and I'm not visiting that state till next weekend, to see my cousins. I will definitely ask her out next week, but after all those days, she might totally forget who I was. Or, if she really did like me, maybe giving her the extra space will keep her attracted. I'm probably way overthinking this and should give up on this girl. It's just so rare that I get to talk to such a beautiful lady.
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