Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) he's long gone I am so lonely no friends, no one to talk to no where to go, nothing to do don't leave my house unless I have to I am pitiful once upon a time all of this was ok but since being left I just hate it just wanted to complain I guess, feeling hopeless Edited September 8, 2013 by Brown-Eyez 2
Kizza Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 he's long gone I am so lonely no friends, no one to talk to no where to go, nothing to do don't leave my house unless I have to I am pitiful once upon a time all of this was ok but since being left I just hate it just wanted to complain I guess, feeling hopeless You are not alone, I feel like this today. Just get up and do something, you will still feel **** but less like **** if you just sit there feeling like ****. Maybe go for a walk? Even if it is just around the block x (((Hugs))) 1
Chris715 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I think a lot of people on here feel that way, myself included, so you're definitely not alone. Do you really not have any friends where you live or do you just not feel like hanging out with any of them? What about family? I find that forced social interaction makes me feel better, even if only in the moment when I'm around people, so that's something that can help. Doesn't always work that way though. I made myself go out to hang out with some friends tonight, wasn't feeling it and just went home and here I am, feeling pretty much the same as you and wondering what my ex girlfriend is up to. Reach out to friends and family if you have any in town, or call them up if they're at a distance, even if you have to force yourself. And people on here are always available to talk, myself included.
Mrs.Witter Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I've felt this I still sometimes do it comes and goes ebbs and flows.
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 ok its morning of another day I know I'm a loser for just starting this thread but I appreciate your replies I'll go wash my car maybe get groceries weekends are BAD loneliness has become deadly to me when solitude use to be a comfort 1
hopefulfaerie Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hey Girlfriend! We are all here for you. Like I have said before, I come here DAILY and not leaving anytime soon. I have been at a CONSTANT battle NOT to think of him. I woke from a dream about him.....yet again!!! You are not alone in these crappy feelings. Hang in there. Weekends are rough, no doubt about it. You did the right thing by coming here
Heartbroken Eagle Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hey Brown-Eyez, you are definately not on your own. I'm not having a great day as I don't have my son this weekend. I'm missing him and feeling a bit down. Also my head is a bit sore from too many beers with friends last night!!! But ask yourself this question, would you be happy being with someone who did not love you anymore or give you the respect you deserve? I know it does not ease the pain though, but I'd rather be on my own than living with someone in denial... Keep your head up...
ruby77 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Weekends are horrendous for me too, I get so depressed and just can't wait to get back to work on Monday. I'm hurtling towards the 6 month mark after breakup and starting to think I am totally screwed and will never get back to my old self. When does this end??? 2
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Weekends are horrendous for me too, I get so depressed and just can't wait to get back to work on Monday. I'm hurtling towards the 6 month mark after breakup and starting to think I am totally screwed and will never get back to my old self. When does this end??? yes, i'd like to know the answer to your question too 1
hopefulfaerie Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 ok its morning of another day I know I'm a loser for just starting this thread but I appreciate your replies I'll go wash my car maybe get groceries weekends are BAD loneliness has become deadly to me when solitude use to be a comfort WAIT!!! I can't believe I missed that, the first time I read it! YOU ARE NOT A LOSER!!! You can start a thread anytime about anything you want! That's why we are here, to be completely honest and support each other through these awful and confusing feelings! Now, if I see you putting yourself down again, I'm going to introduce you to my ex!!!! JUST KIDDING!!! ha ha!!!! ((((((Hopefulfaerie pulls down britches and moons Brown-Eyez)))))) :D 2
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 WAIT!!! I can't believe I missed that, the first time I read it! YOU ARE NOT A LOSER!!! You can start a thread anytime about anything you want! That's why we are here, to be completely honest and support each other through these awful and confusing feelings! Now, if I see you putting yourself down again, I'm going to introduce you to my ex!!!! JUST KIDDING!!! ha ha!!!! ((((((Hopefulfaerie pulls down britches and moons Brown-Eyez)))))) :D OK! you're right, I gotta stop feeling sorry for myself..just one of my darker times--hopelessness got ahold of me thanks for the laugh about the ex
hopefulfaerie Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 OK! you're right, I gotta stop feeling sorry for myself..just one of my darker times--hopelessness got ahold of me thanks for the laugh about the ex We all have days where we feel sorry for ourselves, myself included and more than I would like to admit. I think that's just part of the process. Just don't ever think there is anything wrong with you! There isn't, you are AWESOME!!!
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 We all have days where we feel sorry for ourselves, myself included and more than I would like to admit. I think that's just part of the process. Just don't ever think there is anything wrong with you! There isn't, you are AWESOME!!! thanks so much for the support! I know you're trying to be helpful but I feel far from awesome right now (maybe tomorrow) working on trying to get out of the house..
hopefulfaerie Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 thanks so much for the support! I know you're trying to be helpful but I feel far from awesome right now (maybe tomorrow) working on trying to get out of the house.. I know. I wish I could give you a big hug! Thinking of you today and saying a prayer for you.
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 I know. I wish I could give you a big hug! Thinking of you today and saying a prayer for you. aww, thank you
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 How long has it been for you Brown Eyes? sent him a no contact request unless he wanted something real with me a week and a half ago..got no response which of course says it all
ruby77 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Its still very early days for you then. I know it hurts like hell but it will get easier.
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Its still very early days for you then. I know it hurts like hell but it will get easier. yeah, that's what they all say..and what I'm counting on tomorrow is another day
Moniq Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hi!! I feel the same way sometimes. If it weren't for my kids all id want to do is be in bed. But they keep me busy. But I have been reading a lot of quotes about divorce and it has helped me, from pinterst. Why am I going to let this man take up so much room in my head. Im sure he is not thinking of me. And then I thought, I don't want to let go, so I thought about him all the time. But that will not bring him back. Its ok to not think about my EX every waking moment. I read also that its better to continue living your life and only allow yourself an hour a day to think of him. Im rambling, but this helps me too, 1
Kizza Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 thanks so much for the support! I know you're trying to be helpful but I feel far from awesome right now (maybe tomorrow) working on trying to get out of the house.. Get out of the house sooner rather than later if you can! Don't let other aspects of your life suffer because of this one person. There is lots out there to help you heal and if you sit inside and wallow then you are virtually putting your life in to a stand still mode. it is ok to do for a short whilst but I am saying from experience that if you stay in this state too long it could be detrimental to other parts of who you are and it will get harder and harder to pick up the pieces.
Author Brown-Eyez Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 Get out of the house sooner rather than later if you can! Don't let other aspects of your life suffer because of this one person. There is lots out there to help you heal and if you sit inside and wallow then you are virtually putting your life in to a stand still mode. it is ok to do for a short whilst but I am saying from experience that if you stay in this state too long it could be detrimental to other parts of who you are and it will get harder and harder to pick up the pieces. went to work yesterday and started to feel better but then wanted to text him so bad yesterday! thankfully I was able to resist the urge now it's another day.. I just gotta say weekends are just the worse for me I'm tired after a long work week and am way too idle with just mounds of chores that I don't want to do slowly slowly slowly I must try to unwind from this miserable place
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