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I am in relationship with a widower


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Hello everyone. I just need some life advice. I am in a relationship with my late best friend husband. It is extremely complicated and the biggest problem that I don't have anyone to talk to about it. We are not open just yet, as there are too many people (children!) evolved and it has not been that long since the tragedy. It is very hard on so many levels, but I do love him, and I do want to be with him. Is there anyone similar?

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How did you too end up together? How long has it been since the tragedy? Sorry for both of your loss.

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Hi Misfortune,

 

I think that initially we just really were looking for comfort and help, and did go through it just as a good friends, but very quickly it escalated to something more. In fact, we both told each other that we love each other and the love is deep and not based on grieving along. She past away 10 months ago. We been in it for 8... I know it is too quick. And I know that is why we are having such ups and downs, but I do feel that I love him, truly love him. But there are also so many other strong feelings involved...

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