Teknoe Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 What if he's an acquaintance? What if you liked her before you knew he liked her? What if she doesn't like him back? That's basically my situation. Today I found out an acquaintance, not really a friend... I don't see him 1 on 1... only time I see him is when we're hanging out with our closer mutual friends... like, I have never asked him to hang out 1 on 1 and I don't think he'd ever ask me either... we're just not super tight, but we do get along. But yeah, I found out today an acquaintance likes the girl I am currently developing feelings for. Feels awkward though. She doesn't like him, or at least, hasn't been returning his advances. I can't tell how she feels about me yet, but we seem to have a decent connection. I guess I'll just take it slow and let her chase me if she's interested at all.
CherryT Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Let her chase you. Do you know he likes her because that's what she told you? Or has he said something in a group setting? If you've never heard it from his mouth and they've never shown up at a gathering together. He could just be making advances with no intentions of having her as his girlfriend. If they've been dating and you knew and she decided she's not into him... you could create an awkward situation in the next few group settings. Tread lightly. Though acquaintances can't get mad at you for stealing "his girl" if she wasn't his to begin with.
Author Teknoe Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Let her chase you. Do you know he likes her because that's what she told you? Or has he said something in a group setting? 1. Oh I'm definitely going to let her chase me (now). If a guy chases, most times it doesn't end well. 2. He told me and a few others over breakfast today that he likes her a lot. And yes, I will tread carefully.
Recommended Posts