Are you having a hard time letting go? this worked for me! Seriously

[atlous]

Caution corny analogy ahead but therapeutic if you catch my drift!

 

 

I had an ex who lied and cheated and treated me like the worst disposable sheet ever. I now look at it as someone broke into my heart stole feelings without returning them and then violated me and my sense of giving and used it to go date someone else. It is the same as someone breaking into your house, sorry about the odd analogy but seriously. I mean a stranger breaks into your house and takes everything that you worked for everything you put in is gone. If you think of getting over it in these terms. The police will say there is nothing you can do, you will never find him or her so get over it. For the first few days you ponder that life is not fair and ask yourself what did I do to deserve this. Still there is nothing you can do. Are you going to sit there in your living room with no furniture for the rest of your life! Laughing my ass off at this thread. NO you pick yourself up and realize that asking yourself why they broke in is not going to bring your stuff back. Think of the person who stole this stuff. Must have a rough life must be inscure and unsuccessful. THat is like our exs that stole our heart and emotions and gave them to soemone else because they can't make it on their own. They will continue to steal, that's all they know how to do. So catch the exs in the act of stealing and raise your dignity and say I am sorry you can't have this. Some may stop if they get caught and some won't. If you keeping leaving your door unlocked they are never going to change and the temptation will still be there for them to steal and make you feel abandoned and used time after time. WOW I feel better all ready I hope these words help you like they helped me teach them a lesson and lock your **** up and make them do the time! May be then they will respect the freedom that comes with your love. I hope that this wasn't so confusing it really helped me out alot. And those people that they spend their love on are the people that don't have anything to steal! Get me? I love everyone here because we are all hurting and allowing ourselves to heal the correct way alone. For them happy frickin trials!

[daphne]

i like the analogy; corny or not.

[Reinvention]

Right-on, I hear ya!!

[mj108]

Atlous---Wow! Couldn't had said it better. So true--so true! You're getting more wiser than me & I'm the old lady. lol Take care & hope you're having a fabulous B-day!