johndoes Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 My ex broke up with me about two months ago because she was still in love with her ex. We only dated for around 6 months. Her and her ex are talking again. But last night my roommates and a bunch of my friends went out to hang out with her and her friends at a bar. Now we are all friends from high school and still have a good friendship with each other except for me and her. When they showed up the first thing out of her mouth was asking where I was. They said I would be there later cause I had other things going on. Then a while later she asked the same thing again and then respond with well I'm glad he didn't come. She was drunk of her @$$. I'm just curious to why she would do this
hopefulfaerie Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 She's having second thoughts, wants you on the backburner or is afraid you have moved on and are seeing another girl. Maybe all three but I bet it is at least one of these. If she was indifferent to you, she wouldn't care where you were, which she clearly does. 1
Misfortune Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 How long was her other relationship over before she started with you? She can do what she did because she wants to be your "friend". You were friends before and can be "friends" after. Why would one of my friends not be here having fun with me? <--- most dumpers logic. At this point, she probably doesn't care which way things go between you two because she can has her ex to fall back on.
Author johndoes Posted September 7, 2013 Author Posted September 7, 2013 Her and her ex last dated seven years ago. Last time they seen each other was 4 years ago. It was a high school relationship. She told me that she has always been in love with him and would do anything for him
Misfortune Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 She told you this before, during or after your relationship? I wouldn't get with/back with someone that has there heart somewhere else. It sucks and it's not easy to just go cold turkey on someone that you care about.
Author johndoes Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 I don't want to get back with her. I've moved on and it might now seem like that asking the question but I have. She told me everything the night we broke up. They have broken up multiple times when they were dating and if that's what she wants then go for it. Im just curious about it...I'm seeing if this is a small victory for me or not. I understand what you said about her just seeing why Im not there to hang out as friends but we haven't talked since two days after we broke up. No contact whatsoever. I deleted her from Facebook, all of the photes and all the ways for me to contact her.
Misfortune Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Whether or not it's a victory depends on how view things. She might now be viewing/doing things the same as you.
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