Girl I'm dating says she loves the person Iam, but wants to stop dating..

[Gochelseablues]

She started getting kind of distant for a day or so. Then she tells me she has really been wondering if she wants to continue dating, we dated for a few mos. She says I'm the man she always wanted to have, all the qualities she's ever desired. Likes being affectionate with me,says she's never been so attached to someone before.Then Boom,she wants to stop, no reason other than she was worried things wont work out later on. I've gone NC, but it is really difficult. I really think she is making a silly decision. When she told me she wanted to stop dating, i told her lets give it a few days, hoping she'd miss me. Nope, she stuck to her guns. I didnt beg or plead or try to convince her. I literally accepted her decision and left. Now a huge part of me is wanting to try and salvage it and try to talk things over with her. Should I?

[aussietigerwolf]

are you sure she didn't just meet someone else and wants to keep you as an option?

[Gochelseablues]

I appreciate the feedback. I'm not interested in FWB at all. Looking to settle down. She went on and on in a text of how great her life has improved because of me,etc. I guess it doesn't matter what her reasons are. It's over.

[soccerrprp]

She started getting kind of distant for a day or so. Then she tells me she has really been wondering if she wants to continue dating, we dated for a few mos. She says I'm the man she always wanted to have, all the qualities she's ever desired. Likes being affectionate with me,says she's never been so attached to someone before.Then Boom,she wants to stop, no reason other than she was worried things wont work out later on. I've gone NC, but it is really difficult. I really think she is making a silly decision. When she told me she wanted to stop dating, i told her lets give it a few days, hoping she'd miss me. Nope, she stuck to her guns. I didnt beg or plead or try to convince her. I literally accepted her decision and left. Now a huge part of me is wanting to try and salvage it and try to talk things over with her. Should I?

 

No. For you, NC is the way to go. She didn't give in, so she's really not interested in you it would seem.

 

Move on.

[Dallers]

Classic bad girl story. God I love those bad girls, but they are inhumanely impossible to be with. Sex is like strawberries and ice cream as well.

 

Keep walking towards the light son, nothing to see here.