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After my last relationship I'm pretty guarded up when guys express their feelings for me or that they want to date me. There's this one guy in particular that keeps pursuing me even though I made it obvious I'm not that interested.

 

I want to give him a chance though because I don't want to live my whole life shutting guys out but when I talk to him, I just get this weird feeling that he's not genuine. Am I being unreasonably paranoid or should I trust my gut instinct and avoid him?

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After my last relationship I'm pretty guarded up when guys express their feelings for me or that they want to date me. There's this one guy in particular that keeps pursuing me even though I made it obvious I'm not that interested.

 

I want to give him a chance though because I don't want to live my whole life shutting guys out but when I talk to him, I just get this weird feeling that he's not genuine. Am I being unreasonably paranoid or should I trust my gut instinct and avoid him?

Don't think about it too much until you get to know him a little better. You say you want to give him a chance and maybe that's what it will take for him to relax a little more around you.....sometimes guys get nervous too initially and need time to feel confident and comfortable around a girl they like so why not set up a couple of dates like going for a meal or the cinema just to see how it goes?

If he doesn't start to relax and show signs of improvement then just end things and move on or be up front and tell him that you're not quite sure about the vibe he is giving off and maybe even ask him what his motivations for pursuing you are.

After that if the chemistry feels right then the rest will come naturally.

Good luck

Edited by L1ght
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