mysticalstar Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 Hey everyone!!! I need your advice!! I have been dating a guy for the past few months. Things have been going really good but lately we have been kind of bickering . I think this has to do with the fact of how much we see each other. We are with each other non-stop. I don't know why we are together so much because we are both in college and have other things going on to where we should not be with each other that much. But we are. And after a while things get old if you see to much of a person. Well last night he told me that he has been thinking and he needs to take a couple days break from each other. I was totally fine with it..(even though I cried but not in front of him) and told him that if he wanted space than that is fine with me. Personally I dont even know why I cried or am upset over it because I would like a little break myself. So that was all that was pretty much said. Today at class ( we have a class together) he came and sat next to me and acted as if nothing happened last night. I was still a little upset about it becaues for one, I dont really know what to think. Are we still boyfriend/girlfriend....or are we broken up? Well anyways...after class he asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him tonight after my class. I said I would and that i would pick him up when I was done. Now if he wants his space then why is he still wanting to do things with me? I'm very confused. Should I still think of us as "boyfriend/girlfriend" or are we not together? I want to ask him but I dont want to bug him about it. I think that taking a break from each other means we are still together but just not going to be with each other as much? What do you think?! Oh and today he was asking me why I was acting so weird and all upset and why I was not "talkative" today. I wanted to say because you were an ASS last night! but I didn't. I just need some advice because I really do like him and that doesn't happen very much with me. If you could give me some input on what you think that would be great!! Thanks
alphamale Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 Hmm....let's see here: You have been seeing each other a few months and you are with each other NON-STOP?!? This is insanity. You see each other NON-STOP once you get married, not after you've known someone for 10 weeks! Are you two teenagers? Because that is the only thing that would explain this behaviour. FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT. Stop hanging out together every day! See each other twice a week or so until you hit the 6 month anniversary.
DutyPaid Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 you are totally smothering each other you said so yourself get some other sh*t going on in your life in your spare time & give yourselves something to talk about when you do get together What do you think?! i think he still wants to see you, just not ALL the time. so you go shopping today, talk on the phone tomorrow & see each other a day or two later Oh and today he was asking me why I was acting so weird and all upset and why I was not "talkative" today. I wanted to say because you were an ASS last night! but I didn't. why is the guy an ass? he' right, you are spending way too much time together if you act weird about it for too long he'll dump you
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