NvrLetUDown Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 Hey guys so its been 5 Weeks NC with my ex of 20 months. I was in a 3 year LTR before two years before so I feel like that definitely helped in this BU. Lately, I have been catching up with old friends and meeting new people at work. Surprisingly someone at work is potentially showing interest so ill see where it goes but she is fun to talk to. I'm not gonna lie the first two weeks were terrible I got very little sleep, ate very little and was a wreck in the mornings. I can say that I'm doing very well now, I go out with friends or stay at home doing some hobbies (DJing, cooking or working out). I think the most important thing is to keep busy and take your mind off things. I went to New York for a week with family and that was my coming out party. Bought a lot of new clothes for myself and got a different haircut and have receive compliments at work too! I have to return to university soon as my ex and I have class together and live really close to one another so she actually called me to ask me when I was moving in and how I was doing and what I was up to. The next morning she follows me on Instagram ( I removed her a couple days into the breakup) and honestly I would be lying if I said i wasn't nervous for Sunday when I would see her ( she kept some stuff in my house). But after she called I realized i wasn't as shook as I thought. I understand it could change when I see her but I will keep you all updated. Thanks for listening! 2
Author NvrLetUDown Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 So I just saw my ex and we had to move some stuff out of my townhouse to her place. Man that was hard, I do miss her and I slowly felt the pieces start to fall but as a whole I have kept mysel intact. She went out with a couple of friends to eat and I missed not being the first person invited. Not gonna lie I see a long tough road but I know I can plow through this. I keep telling myself that she left a caring person to be by herself. Please loveshackers, feed me some strength !
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