valleygrl69 Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 I been with this man for 5 years. For 3 years i visited him in Texas every so often and from 2012-2013 I lived with him , moved in. During our whole relationship we had on and offs but got back together the same day or next. I met his family a lot and we got dogs together. We had so many special moments. Then on aug 9th he got mad and told me to leave . I left and went back to my home state. He said i could come back in 4 months. Come to find out he has a new gf after i left and she moved in quick. They go places we use to go. They put up pics on fb of them kissing and having fun with each other and our dogs. its like i meant nothing to him. He said he was miserable with me and that he was happy i left .People say he is just saying that to get to me. How can you replace someone you love that that fast? I use to date guys before him and thought i was happy and was going to marry these guys but the honey moon stage ended and yeah but this guy is so happy its been 26 days he been with her since I left and man they really do look happy. I will move on but im shocked and hurt from this person. This was the first serious breakup cause he got a replacement of me. Does he even think about me? Will he ever come back to me? Why did he move on so fast? Can you just forget someone and good memories that fast? Will his new relationship last? All we did was get into an argument and then he told me to leave. Im so devastated but i will move on as fast as i can
flitzanu Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 it was sudden for you, but chances are he's been courting this girl for quite some time, and planning the breakup for quite some time. don't worry about him coming back, he just dumped you for another girl. do you want to be second in line?
sniperz Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 IMO, it's a rebound relationship. Almost every 95%+++ above will fail hard and miserable because they are just finding to save the wounds but it will rupture like chain effects. Maybe you could find a guy and start new spices up. Go socialize more? Good luck.
hotpotato Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 Sometimes people get into a new relationship without healing from the other, and move really fast, then it crashes and burns. Sounds like he is also rubbing it in your face and trying to upset you. Sometimes they want to get a reaction out of you-they want to know you still care. Ignore it! Block his statuses and stay off his fb page. You'll feel much better. Some people just cant be alone. 2
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