sadpanda87 Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 Hey guys... long time visitor of LS, mostly in the coping section but heh here i am... so after my worst break up ever ( 5 yrs, 3 of which long distance ) i gave myself time before dating again. 8 months or so after i met this new girl, she's cute and sweet and we ended up together. 2 months after, i got this job offer in another city. so before i moved away i thought it'd be best if i broke things off with her, i didnt want to do a LDR and i didnt think she was 'the one' for me at that point. the break up talk didnt go well, she cried.. a lot. so we tried different things, we tried NC, tried to talk as friends, tried to talk slightly more than friends, now she's completely shattered and went away on a family trip overseas and we're back at NC. she begged me to try LDR but i just really, really couldnt bring myself to agreeing. it wasnt a fond memory and i desperately didnt want to go through that again i tried to convince myself i did the right thing, but i feel so terrible. i hated making her cry, she didnt do anything wrong. i'd like some advise, was i being a terrible person? should i have at least given it a shot?
Simon Phoenix Posted September 7, 2013 Posted September 7, 2013 If you aren't feeling it, you aren't feeling it. It doesn't make you a bad person. But don't try to talk to her and be friends with her any time soon. That'll just confuse the crap out of her and put her in limbo hell.
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