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Should I stop writing her?


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This girl rejected me due to 'trust issues' last spring but still wanted to be friends. Now I'm thinking that was BS because she had a bf a month later. (they just broke up) In reality, I believe it's because I failed to take action. She probably thought I was too nice, passive & slow.

 

I graduated from school and moved away. She suggested that we exchange letters. I agreed and wrote, she wrote back.

 

I feel weird writing letters to a "friend." It makes me feel soft and girly. I'm really not comfortable with it. I'd have no problem writing her letters if she was my girlfriend. But since she rejected me I kind of feel like her doormat/puppy dog. I know she might not see me in this light, but it's how I feel. Are these thoughts legitimate? Or am I over analyzing things?

 

I think I'm going to stop. If she doesn't call me out I'll figure she didn't really care in the first place. Is this a good way to look at it?

Edited by Drewx2
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