A.K Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 I will make this quick. Went out with a girl for 2 and a half years. We did so many things together and even talked about marriage. Time frame and ages (she was 19-22 during this and I was 25-28). We went on many trips together both in the U.S.A. and to other countries too. Anyway it has been almost 3 years since we broke up, in fact she has gotten married since then. But ever since we broke up we always remained friends and talked on the phone and even exchanged gifts occasionally. So my question is, why when I talk to her on the phone now....or email her....and the conversation sometimes gets back to a memory to one of our trips.... why do I always think to myself that I want her to remember our previous trips and even want her to say sometimes how great that trip was and how much fun they were??????? It is almost like, I still want to be the one who she shares great trips with. And memories of previous trips are the only link to that so I want her to remember and sometimes say how great and how much fun those past trips that we took together were......
Philosoraptor Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 Ego is a crazy thing. Sometimes can make it hard for you to see someone you were with so happy and making new experiences with someone else. That's simply all it is.
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