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How to stop pitying myself?:(


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Well it's me again!

 

More or less everyday I start to pity myself for the failed relationship.Feeling like a victim and stupid.!!!!

I invested too much energy practically on a void and brick wall for many years and feeling old now.

Every time manipulated with the sweet talks of the ex and as stupid as it sounds Im afraid I will fall again for it.I have high morals and ethics and just feeling my dignity is lost in this relationship.Taking back an ex who couldnt care any less for me and my emotions and hurting me many times.Saying I love u,yet it was never backed up with actions.Feeling all my social circle looking at me like a weak ,stupid creature relating this relationship,despite the fact I'm pretty successful in other areas of my life.

 

Just feeling my dignity is gone and its absolutely my fault!

 

How do I stop pitying for myself

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Get out and do things. Stay busy! Travel! Go see something new. Get away from norms and things that remind you of what you lost.

 

Some people state "Yeah, I stay busy, but when I have some down time, all I think about is him/her and what went wrong." Yeah, that happens....but, only in down time rather than ALL DAMN DAY LONG because you're not doing anything.....

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