sjm Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 Well kinda, So my ex went from completely pushing me away, then came 3 weeks of no contact, then came contact again and now we have been friendly for a couple of weeks and he has thrown in the odd sweet thing here and there and hes happy when he talks to me even the couple of times hes seen me. I sent him a lengthy email the other day and I didn't get a reply until last night saying "Very nice email your going away over the weekend? be safe. Im sorry I haven't had a chance to digest your email yet." What does that even mean? He doesn't care or he does care but just genuinely hasn't had the chance to have a look? Should I just not bother waiting for a reply at all? Keep in mind he is a very busy person who is about 400 emails behind at a time with his phone ringing non stop. So the fact that we have had hour long conversations over the past couple of weeks is a pretty big deal. Any help is appreciated!
Chatmonkey Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 Is your goal to get him back? At first glance it sounds like if it was a lengthy email then he wants to acknowledge yo you that he has received the email but he knows he will need time to think about the email after he reads it and hasn't had time to do that yet. Wait for a reply, sounds like a good guy.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 (edited) I dont want to sound like a negative nancy, but you are ONLY seeing the good from what you want to see. When you go no contact....THATS what it is. NO CONTACT. After three weeks, what happened did YOU contact him or did he contact you? Either way, not really the point. You arent over the initial breakup and moved TOO fast with this. THEN you sent a him a lengthy e-mail to which was a blow off response pretty much. Is that the same e-mail you made a thread about last time where everyone said dont send it? To digest your e-mail? What, does he have to chew it up and let the flavor get in there? I can probably promise you apples to oranges that he feels guilty for the whole situation and now digesting the e-mail means "I havent found a good way to let you down more gently." Look, without knowing too much of a backstory, it seems things are friendly, but that leads to a CLEAR friendzone 100 percent. He KNOWS what you want I assure you. If he wanted that, he would let you know. Thats obviously not want you want, so stop contacting him. Edited September 6, 2013 by ConfusedHumanBeing
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