Jord11 Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 She broke up with me, while I still loved her, I've been in nc about 6 months now for my own good, do you think she ever will ?
barky2 Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 IF it'll happen, it'll happen when you could care less and moved on...not a second sooner Barky 1
tart6245 Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 Be happy she hasn't asking to be your friend. I think having them out of our lives is far better than trying to make a friendship while one of you still has feelings. She may reconnect with you one day. I don't know her or whether she has a habit of remaining in contact with ex's or not. My ex did. She contacted me a month after our split, wanted to be friends, and I rejected her. We didn't speak for another few months and finally, when we both healed, we talked and have been on good terms since then. But it takes time. You can't reengage while feelings are still there or it will never work.
bagofnuts Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 Be happy she hasn't asking to be your friend. I think having them out of our lives is far better than trying to make a friendship while one of you still has feelings. She may reconnect with you one day. I don't know her or whether she has a habit of remaining in contact with ex's or not. My ex did. She contacted me a month after our split, wanted to be friends, and I rejected her. We didn't speak for another few months and finally, when we both healed, we talked and have been on good terms since then. But it takes time. You can't reengage while feelings are still there or it will never work. exactly, be happy she's not asking u to be a friend. its been 6 months, u should be getting on with your life no matter how hard it is for you. she probably doesn't give a **** about you. All i can say is try not to think of her anymore and im sure you'll find someone better. Maybe u can think of the bad points when you were with her instead of the happy moments. It might help.
melell Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 She will, could be years away though. keep going
crazy1234 Posted September 6, 2013 Posted September 6, 2013 She broke up with me, while I still loved her, I've been in nc about 6 months now for my own good, do you think she ever will ? Just don't keep expectations that she will for sure.Move on like she never will and learn to be happy without that expectation.If she ever does contact you back,perfect!Its going to be cherry topping only u wont be giving a rat's ass this time.
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