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Ok so a little backstory on this. There is a very attractive girl who makes deliverys to where I work. Shes been coming in now for a year or so. Now I would really like to ask her out. We converse and have small talk at work but nothing too much beyond that. Now we are also friends on facebook. I came across a picture of her from a mutual friend of ours and I was giving her hard time about it. Long and short we became friends on there.

 

She comments and likes pictures I post even ones I post of myself. Now my only issue is that we interact in a work environment so I am very hesitant to ask her out. Not because of policy or anything. I am just concerned of any awkardness that could happen. I haven't been in any kind of situation like this before so it's very new to me. Otherwise i would of asked her out already I am almost positive she's single. Input would be greatly appreciated!

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Ok so a little backstory on this. There is a very attractive girl who makes deliverys to where I work. Shes been coming in now for a year or so. Now I would really like to ask her out. We converse and have small talk at work but nothing too much beyond that. Now we are also friends on facebook. I came across a picture of her from a mutual friend of ours and I was giving her hard time about it. Long and short we became friends on there.

 

She comments and likes pictures I post even ones I post of myself. Now my only issue is that we interact in a work environment so I am very hesitant to ask her out. Not because of policy or anything. I am just concerned of any awkardness that could happen. I haven't been in any kind of situation like this before so it's very new to me. Otherwise i would of asked her out already I am almost positive she's single. Input would be greatly appreciated!

 

They say a woman will decide if she wants you or not the first time you meet her. After more than a year you have most certainly friend zoned yourself. I know this because I had a pretty much identical situation at work and I never made that mistake again.

 

If you like someone you must be quick about it or you become a nice guy and easily forgotten, you give up your chance to another person who does jump in and make the move. You must just accept it and move on, you must not dwell on it because you can watch hours of your life fade away thinking about a girl who you let go by your actions but still believe in your little fantasy world you can still be together, (spoiler) it never happens!

 

You have two choices risk it, or stay friendly. If you risk it and it goes badly then it will be awkward and there is no point making thinking it wont be awkward, it is always awkward and then there goes the friendly business as well because she will know you like her and you cannot then go back to being friendly.

 

The early bird always gets the worm.

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Nah, don't listen to that guy - call up this lady's place of work and order yourself up some lovin'. :D

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Ha I laughed, I should of specified I am pretty positive shes recently single and I was aware she wasn't before and it didn't come from her. I am not obsessed with her just given the nature of the situation I wanted some input (which I do appreciate so keep it coming). I am leaning towards asking her out. If it doesn't happen no biggie there plenty of other girls to ask out and I will continue to be friendly.

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So you have gone from really liking this girl to if it doesn't happen no biggie in the space of two posts on a forum.

 

Cool story bro.

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Ha I laughed, I should of specified I am pretty positive shes recently single and I was aware she wasn't before and it didn't come from her. I am not obsessed with her just given the nature of the situation I wanted some input (which I do appreciate so keep it coming). I am leaning towards asking her out. If it doesn't happen no biggie there plenty of other girls to ask out and I will continue to be friendly.

 

How will you feel if you keep procrastinating and somebody beats you to her?

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Tell her to deliver that ass to your face.

 

Or your crotch. I mean either way.

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It isnt a dire situation everyone, I know very little about her on a personal level all wanted to do was ask her out for a drink or something and see how it goes. If I don't get with her it's ok, why should I or anyone for that matterget busted up over someone they barely know beyond being physically attracted to them? Yes I am a bit nervous about it hence this thread asking for input. I was also dating someone up until about 6 months ago and now I am finally feeling ready ready to possibly take things beyond just a physical encounter.

 

I have been on plenty of dates since my split with my ex this situation is just foreign to me.

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It's not like the girl works with you; she just makes deliveries. So, I don't really understand the hesitation. Just ask her out and be done with it.

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Just ask her out. I've never felt awkward if a guy asks me out and I've had to decline. I'm just flattered and move on.

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