frustration

[frederickkk]

Aren't you tired of chasing someone who doesn't want you yet? Are you going to continue to stalk/ get info on her, while your life goes by?

 

I am not seeking any information, whatsoever. It was told as a passing comment in a pub.

 

I am moving on with my life as hard as it is.

[Sugarkane]

I am not seeking any information, whatsoever. It was told as a passing comment in a pub.

 

I am moving on with my life as hard as it is.

 

You did, from the mutual friend.

[frederickkk]

You did, from the mutual friend.

 

Yes, we were together for two years.

[frederickkk]

that bloke knows how much I have been suffering with this.

[Renard99]

that bloke knows how much I have been suffering with this.

 

 

Well in that case you should tell him to stop telling you anything about her. If he was a true friend he would respect your wishes and not tell you anything and help you move on.................

 

............. however you don't want that. You continue to believe that you can and will get back together. You've said it yourself in this thread, let alone countless others. You want all the information you can get, hoping you'll find something that something that shows you should be together again. Take her weight gain for example. Why does putting on weight mean you're unhappy?....... it doesn't, but you want it as evidence she's missing you and is unhappy.

 

You're failing to build a new life because you're holding on to the old one with both hands.

 

As aspiringuitarheroine says, claiming one person, out of the billions of people out there, is the only one for you is rubbish. You can't have met them all to know that. It's just another excuse you tell yourself in order to keep close to her, even if the restraining order means you can't do it physically.

Edited September 6, 2013 by Renard99