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How Can You Love a Person that is So Wrong

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Hmmm was sitting here pondering. Reading the posts. Many of us going through recovery, healing and rebuilding.. Then something came to me...

 

 

Have you thought of how you can love a person that is so wrong?

 

I know we try to say we dont. Many of us go Non-Contact for our healing and sanity. Some do it out of pain and bitterness. Yet how can someone who dumped us; treated us so wrong, we can still have that compassion about them?

 

My ex and I for instance dated close to 3years. We are both beyond our college and 20s years so you would think we be mature to handle a lasting relationship. Yet she dumped me with a message on Facebook. This , a lady, literally supported emotionally, financially, and spiritually. I was also there for ailing mom, and son for 2 years. Gave my everything yet it was rumored she was gaslighting. Fooling around on me. Denied it to the very end. Moreover still we were planning to build a home together. When exposed she broke things off with me abruptly. Blamed it on me of course. She was very cruel and demonized me. Cutting me off all communication. Even disgracing me publicly on a community internet site on Facebook of 4000 people. Who does that? or we teenagers?? Sheesh

 

With this said, I still see her as a good mom and mediate constantly for her ailing mom who has stage 4 cancer. Although I am maintaining NC (NonContact of course). I still see good things in her although I know she is a very self centered, a user, and narcissistic individual in some ways. I guess I know her huge insecurities, her deep ones, and I feel somewhat sorry for her.

 

SO the question is for all of you. Honestly, Do you feel Love or at least deep Compassion for someone who has treated you so wrong? Not just the usual break up...that happens of course to anyone. Yet the break-up that leaves a scar. How can you Love a Person that is so Wrong?

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Philosoraptor Established Member

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I pity those who treat others wrong, whether it be myself or someone else.

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emi Established Member

emi

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Love is blind man

 

Sometime we loved a person who doesnt deserve it

 

Sometime we cling on to the relationship has already become so toxic and got many red flags

 

WITH THE HOPE LOVE CAN CURE EVERYTHING then

 

Reality hits. Its hurt like hell

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