sadoldgeezer Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 So! it would appear that surprisingly an old OLD mutual friend has found this site and is not too happy that i washed some of my dirty washing in public...unfortunately i used my ex's full name not realising that a simple Google search would show the post...anyway to reiterate and to expand further ...during the 4 years or so that B and i were together she would never grant any sexual intimacies...i never got an explanation as to why and just thought it was because she was Catholic or something...anyway fast forward to a week or so before our wedding and B stays out 1 night without a word to anybody...the following morning i find her at the top of her road outside the house of a former boyfriend...the subsequent conversation went something like this...Where were you last night...none of your business...who were you with...none of your business...what were you doing...none of your...well you get the picture....i was so dumbfounded that i let her drive away and although my immediate reaction was to say FU and move to my parents 300 miles away my Godmother subsequently persuaded me to stay...which i did and never mentioned the incident again...this i now know was wrong and should have been resolved because i never trusted her from that moment on and as i have admitted previously my behaviour towards her during our 3 year marriage was shameful...this is only just 1 of the myriad betrayals that i made myself believe that B had committed and may go a long way to explain why things happened as they did...no excuse i know and some would ask why after 36 years drag it up...simple answer is we never had sites like this in those days where you could vent in some anonymity...hell the only way we had of communicating was by letter or by telephone and no i don't mean the mobile kind!!!
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