Inimitable Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 Let's say you have two guys. A: good looking, slightly emotionally disconnected and a bit shy B: slightly less good looking, but more emotionally expression and confident Assume both dress well and have good sense of style.
MightyPanda Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 Guy here - but if it's only "slightly less," I would imagine most girls would go with the latter. Widen the margin and opinions would change. But of course, you can never apply two concrete labels to every scenario - things would depend entirely on the girl and the two guys.
Malakas Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 Provided there is initial attraction ,by the time i fall in love with them,even a not good looking man can look like George Clooney to my eyes.In the end you are stuck with the behaviour.I personally prefer the George Clooney who is confident and emotionally available.
todreaminblue Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 Let's say you have two guys. A: good looking, slightly emotionally disconnected and a bit shy B: slightly less good looking, but more emotionally expression and confident Assume both dress well and have good sense of style. can you say your usename really fast five ten times and get it right...i cant.......so i think ill just call you unique hey unique, it would have to be an a and b mix because that person would express passion...emotionally expressive..... i dotn care abtout he looks other than i am attracted to them for whatever reason, they can be shy or confident...shy guys actually haver confidence .....its just not visible.......until you get to know them.......unless you are talking chronic shyness.......as far as confident guys go.....i dont like arrogance and cockiness....i like a bit of humility that is why i say an a and b mix....shy guys are normally humble.....and thats not so i can dominate either that i like guys with humility my grandfather was a shy guy......he was an awesome soldier...loyal and humble...wouldnt try and get the upper hand with him....his quietness did not mean he was weak exactly the opposite........and uber confidence is a turn off for me good looking or not.....its attitude that counts..........deb 1
HappyLove Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 When you're young you go for looks as you get older and wiser you go for behavior.
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