Couple of people asked for my Mailer-Daemon reply so here it is with instructions.

[seahawker64]

Next time your ex emails. Instead of ignoring it completely. Fire back with this. It works like a charm.

 

Here's how you do it:

1. Hit Reply.

2. Edit the subject line by adding the words DELIVERY FAILURE: ahead of the original.

3. At the top of the body, simply paste in the quoted text below.

4. Enjoy your life.

 

MAILER-DAEMON: DELIVERY HAS PERMANENTLY FAILED TO THIS RECIPIENT OR DELIVERY LIST.

 

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Sent by Microsoft Exchange Server 2007

 

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[Midnight_Princess]

You are a clever one

Lots of people will find this usefull

[JDPT]

I'm of the opinion that it's best to leave things be, but to each their own.

[Misfortune]

Pretty long way to say "Don't contact me" or to just ignore him. I'm sure some will find it quite useful though. What happens if your ex is well versed with this stuff and can tell that you faked it?

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Good idea in theory, but if doesnt send on the EXACT moment they send their message, many people can tell its BS.

 

If I sent an e-mail to someone and it was blocked, I would get an automated response about three seconds after I send the initial e-mail. So, in theory, you read the message who knows how long after she sent hers and then sent that message after you read it (which probably a good couple of minutes). If she is in the slightest bit of computer knowledge, she will know its BS lol. If it works, it works I guess.

 

Truthfully, I just wouldnt respond. That seems less game playing-ish and more about moving on.

[seahawker64]

Good idea in theory, but if doesnt send on the EXACT moment they send their message, many people can tell its BS.

 

If I sent an e-mail to someone and it was blocked, I would get an automated response about three seconds after I send the initial e-mail. So, in theory, you read the message who knows how long after she sent hers and then sent that message after you read it (which probably a good couple of minutes). If she is in the slightest bit of computer knowledge, she will know its BS lol. If it works, it works I guess.

 

Truthfully, I just wouldnt respond. That seems less game playing-ish and more about moving on.

 

Good point. I was able to do mine almost instantaneously. My thought was I would rather she believe there is no way for her to contact me anymore than think she has options to do so. I'm pretty well locked down on the web. I've moved, I've changed jobs. She's blocked on my phone. Email was kinda her last option. I've deleted and blocked our mutual friends and the ones I still keep completely understand and I trust implicitly.

 

I just feel it's best if I become invisible to her. Best for me and best for her. Like I said, I will always think she was a special Woman and I will always care for her in some degree. We tried and tried and tried to make it work. We both failed each other miserably. That's probably what bother's me most, it's because we tried and just couldn't pull it together.

 

So if she has found a new love and it works for her then that's what she should focus on. I'm dating again myself, met a very pretty, very nice, very fun woman this past weekend and we are planning on spending some get to know you time together in the next few days.

 

Life goes on, it may feel like your dying inside but your not. It just hurts but every storm runs out of rain....eventually. It's all about acceptance and letting it go. Just my two cents...ha!

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Good point. I was able to do mine almost instantaneously. My thought was I would rather she believe there is no way for her to contact me anymore than think she has options to do so. I'm pretty well locked down on the web. I've moved, I've changed jobs. She's blocked on my phone. Email was kinda her last option. I've deleted and blocked our mutual friends and the ones I still keep completely understand and I trust implicitly.

 

I just feel it's best if I become invisible to her. Best for me and best for her. Like I said, I will always think she was a special Woman and I will always care for her in some degree. We tried and tried and tried to make it work. We both failed each other miserably. That's probably what bother's me most, it's because we tried and just couldn't pull it together.

 

So if she has found a new love and it works for her then that's what she should focus on. I'm dating again myself, met a very pretty, very nice, very fun woman this past weekend and we are planning on spending some get to know you time together in the next few days.

 

Life goes on, it may feel like your dying inside but your not. It just hurts but every storm runs out of rain....eventually. It's all about acceptance and letting it go. Just my two cents...ha!

 

Model citizen!! Thats what you need to do. Block all forms of communication and keep rolling. You seem to be having it under control and that is a lot better than what I can say for many others. Good work!

 

I will say this though....even though you seem to be doing better, you are still pretty early in in this. If I remember your story correctly, you guys where off and on for two and a half years and broke up somewhere in March or April correct? Thats a pretty sizable chunk of time and you are moving on so well, but its still pretty early. Make sure you are READY to date again.

 

People move on in different speeds and you might be lightyears ahead of what I was at six months, but I tried dating around that time and it was going well, but the ex will still pretty much in the forefront of my head. I had to end it because I wasnt ready mentally I was just trying to force my ex out of there. We were together (my ex and I) the same amount of time, and a full year later, I'm just now ready to fully date. I went on a date with a SMOKING hot girl the other day (WAY out of my league) and it went well until she mentioned she got dumped by her ex three months ago after four years and they still talk. THAT ended that night quickly because I knew she wasn't ready to date. You may or may not be, just be real with your intentions because if you are not ready, your mind and heart will play evil tricks on you and it will only end in more heartache with new girl.

 

Overall though, keep doing what youre doing.