Ireallydontknow Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 I keep thinking if I could ever be friends with my ex after she betrayed me. Sometimes I think I would really like her in my life. She was a good friend, not the best fiancé. Then I start thinking of all the pain and suffering she caused me. Finding another guy while with me, having sex with said guy while with me. I fester and I get so angry. I think I would explode sometimes "Do you know what you did to me?!" I'm wondering if anyone on here ever reconnected, befriended an ex after cheating. I'm conflicted but it's only been. 24 days, 24 NC. I wish I could stop thinking about her -.-;;;
Sugarkane Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 Probably not since your still angry. A friend is someone your supposed to be able to trust. So how can you trust a cheater? The ex would actually have to show remorse and change. Does your ex show this? They rarely seem to care. I'd be reluctant to give someone a chance. 2
Author Ireallydontknow Posted September 5, 2013 Author Posted September 5, 2013 Oh I wasn't thinking of breaking NC. I was thinking years down the road. I'm good friends with my ex from 10 years ago. I don't know. I just hate how much I miss her, when I shouldn't. I hope one day she has to feel this when her back up goes running the other way. I'll just keep working on myself. I'm all I got right now.
Simon Phoenix Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 There's no way I would consider such a thing. 1
KCCK Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 I keep thinking if I could ever be friends with my ex after she betrayed me. Sometimes I think I would really like her in my life. She was a good friend, not the best fiancé. Then I start thinking of all the pain and suffering she caused me. Finding another guy while with me, having sex with said guy while with me. I fester and I get so angry. I think I would explode sometimes "Do you know what you did to me?!" I'm wondering if anyone on here ever reconnected, befriended an ex after cheating. I'm conflicted but it's only been. 24 days, 24 NC. I wish I could stop thinking about her -.-;;; I understand and I feel you... i tried to talk to my ex but when pictures of her smile and that guy she dump you for started to appear on social network, I call it an end.. it is very hard to be friends with someone who betrays our trust. they know it is wrong to cheat and yet they still does it while in a relationship with us. Please dont find her anymore, keep NC..just forget about her and move on in life.. she will not find you coz she doesnt care about you at all..if she really cares than the cheating and dumping would never had happened. stay strong..
Sugarkane Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 I don't know it seems if you do, they just do The same Behaviour because they know they cam get away with it.
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