livdee Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 So, just this morning I made the commitment to myself that I would go NC.. his choice that I would abide by. I was very resolute with that decision this morning... this minute I am fighting myself not to text him! I feel so weak when it comes to him. I keep thinking of things I want to ask him. I know i didn't get closure, but why do I feel like I need it? Someone tell me to stop!
JDPT Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 The erratic emotions you are currently experiencing are perfectly common, embrace them. You will have moments of despair and feel as if you will not make it out of this but believe me as cliché as this may sound there is indeed a light at the end of the tunnel. Read the 5 stages of grieving it will give you a clearer understanding as to what you are currently feelings. In any event, remain strong and know that these weak moments will pass. Remain committed to NC and pace yourself, you are in this for the long run. 2
reddragon588 Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Strength comes from within. Your decision to go NC was an example of your inner strength. You can do it! Turn it into a game if you need- see how long you can go without contacting him. What you feel is normal and you're doing the right things! 2
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 So, just this morning I made the commitment to myself that I would go NC.. his choice that I would abide by. I was very resolute with that decision this morning... this minute I am fighting myself not to text him! I feel so weak when it comes to him. I keep thinking of things I want to ask him. I know i didn't get closure, but why do I feel like I need it? Someone tell me to stop! Turning your phone off RIGHT NOW would be a good idea! Also deleting his number will too. You can't text him if you don't know it xx 1
Author livdee Posted September 4, 2013 Author Posted September 4, 2013 Thanks everyone! I haven't texted yet! I changed his contact name to Do NOT Text. I remember the number so I can't just take him out. Why do I feel like I need to kniw if all the things he said to me he really felt? I really think he was caught up in the A excitement too, but how can he just turn it off? That's what I can't do... I think I should just answer those questions for him. Btw, he lives right up my street so I see him all the time. Ugh... 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Thanks everyone! I haven't texted yet! I changed his contact name to Do NOT Text. I remember the number so I can't just take him out. Why do I feel like I need to kniw if all the things he said to me he really felt? I really think he was caught up in the A excitement too, but how can he just turn it off? That's what I can't do... I think I should just answer those questions for him. Btw, he lives right up my street so I see him all the time. Ugh... Walk down the street not up it now In the beginning you'll want answers to a whole range of questions. He is probably not willing to answer them, if he is it may not be truthfully. Push the questions aside, what's done is done and they don't matter anymore even though right now you are dying to know xxx
HappyLove Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Fight the urge because once you text it brings you back to square one and you'll feel even WORSE than you do now!
Author livdee Posted September 4, 2013 Author Posted September 4, 2013 Made it through the urge guys! Thank you!! 1
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