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Hi,

 

So I met this guy about 6 months ago and we became friends very quickly ( We both felt like we knew each other before).

So, as we fancy each other, we started sleeping together and he told me he couldnt be in a relationship from the start (he just broke up with his GF/has no job, does not feel very stable and cant make decisions for 2 where he is right now).

So we carried on sleeping together, and one day I upset because I do like him, so we had a talk and he said maybe in the future they cud be a chance for us). He said he does not want to loose me, and he would be upset if we never talked again. So we said maybe we should not sleep together anymore.

Saw him a few days ago, we slept together again and acted like we are together as we normally do, then I told him that thought we agreed that we would not do this anymore and he said that he likes me, we are young and shouldnt always think to much.

 

So Now the question is, remain like this and see what happens? Or tell him that's it, I cant do it anymore?

 

I dont want to put pressure on the situation and i know that feelings can take time to develop and I do feel like he cares about me, but I think I care more and might get hurt. I feel silly because I dont wanna put a name on us, I'm not trying to put us in a box, it's just I've been hurt before and I dont want to be hurt again...

 

(Btw, this guy smokes quite alot and I think that may affect his thinking at specific times...)

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acrosstheuniverse Established Member

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He likes the sex but doesn't want anything more. He's hoping to keep you around for the sex but if you're after a relationship, he's not interested.

Grumpybutfun Established Member

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Smoking isn't affecting his thinking, his pec*er is affecting his thinking. He likes you to have sex with. Move on because there is no future with this guy if that is what you are after. Also, learn something from this. If you are looking for casual sex, then have casual sex, but if you are looking for a relationship, you will not find it in casual sex. Men can have sex with anyone and they do not have to feel anything for them to do so. Harsh truth but one you need to learn.

Good luck,

Grumps

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