hurts2death Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 ok so it is approved that past present and future exist at the same time. so everything is determined? we are destined to break up or what ever happends to us? or at least in a level? it is getting weird 1
KarmaComa Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 hmm.. thought about it myself alot.... Well, my point of view on this subject is that yes our lives are predetermined , only in crucial points. For example: you WILL go College, then you WILL become a Doctor, then you WILL make a family. lets call these crucial points A, B, C. These points cannot be altered. However, the ROUTE from getting from point A to point B is your free will, and the experiences are there waiting for you in a less obligatory fashion. (you can get to college and either choose to be a geeky straight A student, or a Frat Animal, BUT eventually you WILL become a Doctor.) see my point? Now regarding breakups....... now that's a tough one. Definitely, Breakups in our lives HAVE to happen,EXCATLY how they happened (being cheated on/dumped etc.) It's a lesson. A painful/devastating one, but it teaches us something. Just imagine yourself after you leave the Fog of the BU : You are thinner for sure , maybe also worked some muscle on, feeling like you're rediscovering yourself, the pain of the BU is still there but its not bleeding. You are feeling REBORN. and then, in this configuration (Wiser/more fit) you "HAPPEN" to meet the girl/boy that makes it all fall in place.... or your ex just reappears "magically" in your life again!!!!! it has happened to me, more than once so i'm not talking BS. well that's my 2 cents.... cheers,! 1
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