UltimaWeapon Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 (edited) Hey loveshack, About 3 weeks ago me and my ex had a heart to heart and she told me she still missed me and said there was no one else and that they reason she ended it with me was because of her family and how hard it would be because of the difference in religion n stuff. She said she had hope it would work but realized it wouldn't. So told me she would want to be with me if she moved out and she was having problems at home and she was staying at a friends for the time being. That final night I saw her all those feelings I kept inside came out again and I realized I still was very much in love with her. So i made a letter and wrote it out and told her I was willing to do what it took to be with her and that I wanted to try one last time. I sent it as a text and she took a while to reply and basically said she isn't doing good right now with her family and that they have control over her social media and phone and that she isn't allowed to go out or do anything. She said she the best thing to do would be to wait wen she is back from vacation or when school started again. She said she would contact me when she can..with her reply and said she would give me an answer when she has privacy, when she is alone and when she can. I have no idea what that could mean and I even told her she has not given me any sort of time frame or anything what am I suppose to take from that? She said every message I send is worse and that she is in a lot of problems with her family. ( she is using this as a shield and over exaggerating the situation because she still has activity on social media sites but can't text me her answer last 23 days?????) She has went on vacation and came back and still I have heard of nothing from her or what is happening. She has not made any attempt to contact me and has left me in limbo as to what is happening. Its been about 23 days now since I sent that letter giving her a final yes or no. She still has not said anything. What am I suppose to do now??? She had no problems ending it before..if it was a no- why couldn't she have said it already? Why would she continue to make me wait?? What games is she playing at? Am i suppose to contact her again saying something? What am i suppose to do!! This is seriously disrespectful to me and the fact she even put me in this situation makes me lose soooo much attraction towards her and desire.. Edited September 4, 2013 by UltimaWeapon
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