vodoochild81 Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Hey guys. So I met a girl online, and prior to meeting we had some really great long emails then texts etc. It was a promising start. She was leaving for vacation soon but we decided to meet up before she left. The date was good, but more of a get to know you type of thing. It was kinda known that we were both looking for a relationship so there was no pushing. After the date I sent a follow up text saying I wanted to see her again. She hit me back right away with an enthusiastic text saying it was so nice to meet me and we would hang out when she got back from vacation. So like a week later I sent a check in cute text and she responded pretty warmly. Then like 4 days later I asked how she was doing. She replied that she was back home and sooo tired, and asked how I was. I answered and asked her how the trip was and she didn't respond. Which I don't take too hard because it's a text, people get busy. The next day I tried calling her and she didn't pick up or call me back. I know she must of been tired and labor weekend came up but I am now being ignored like 5 days. It's just odd because I know when a girl is flaking out or displaying no interest and it's usually not that sudden. As one of my friends said, who is a girl, that the letting someone down easy is usually way more obvious, and happens right after the date. This happens a lot with my online dates and I don't get it. Most the time actually if I just move on and they get back to me like 2 weeks later. Is there more games and tests with online dates because there isn't as much comfort level?
Author vodoochild81 Posted September 4, 2013 Author Posted September 4, 2013 (edited) Seriously dude? Online dating is a complete waste of time unless you look damn good in your profile pictures. A man's online dating profile is only as good as his worst picture. Even if you (like you did) manage to meet one of these chicks they are bombarded with messages from countless dudes. So what most of them do since they can't read them all and get a lot of crap emails is they go for who looks best and see what he wrote, respond, and delete all the rest. Till their inbox fills up again. The same chick you dated is doing the same thing. The grass is always greener. In her mind she's justifying things as you came on as a possible "clinger" even though you didn't from your side of the way things went to excuse that she's really online looking for better. Guarantee you go online you'll see her active on the site at different times after she had "such a great time with you". Where do you think all the women who use online dating...ESPECIALLY free sites come from? Old ex myspace h0es, Adult Friend Finder, the towns "first" baggage galore. The few who are normal and try it out are off those sites almost as soon as they join as it's crap. Ask yourself: What type of woman who could meet anyone and does get hit on on a daily basis "needs" online dating? Think about it. I know faaaaar too many dudes who look damn good who use those sites..ESPECIALLY free ones for pump and dumps. Meet people in real life. Thank God you aren't wifing up ANY woman who needs online dating. Trust me. I know of many sites who use fake profiles of unknown really good looking guys in normal pictures and they post threads MANY threads of talking to countless women on POF etc. and set up "dates" for sex. The conversations etc. are all posted online with screen shots. online dating. POF free sites etc is nothing more than people pump and dumping each other and going for the best eye candy they can get. EVEN IF the persons profile sucks. You may not believe me or I may get shouted down...But believe me dude. I've seen it and know faar too many dudes who use those sites not for "dating". You've been warned. I would of agreed with you like two years ago. But a few of my friends met great girlfriends on there. One of them even got married from online. True I don't know this person that well and I have come across people like that, but she for sure wasn't. How in the world would I be a possible clinger? This is what people do. Guy pursues. If I texted and called her everyday yea okay clinger. Like for example another girl I talked to after one text convo started texting me every day starting with "good morning" as if we were a couple. We never even met yet! Now that is a potential clinger. And yea I have seen her online. I want a second date with her not to wife her up lol. We had one date. If she wasn't talking to other dudes I would think it's whacko. ha Edited September 4, 2013 by vodoochild81
HappyLove Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 People use and throw away people offline too! Plenty of people have fallen in love online! If you go in with a negative mindset then that's all you'll get is negativity. Give her one last chance one more call of no response then you know for sure she's a waste of time move on to the next girl. How great a person can she be if she just ignores you?
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