Sweetgirl28 Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 So I met this guy off a website. We hung out for a couple of hours yesterday and it seemed fun to me. I guess he felt the same. He left in the late afternoon because he still had a long drive ahead of him. Then he texted me when he got home to tell me he got home and that we should hang out soon. I said sure and that he should let me know when he had time. He said he would do that. Now, I'm not sure if I'll ever hear from him again. He hasn't texted me today and he hasn't made any concrete plans yet. What to make of this?
mammasita Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Um, be patient. You just met yesterday, good grief. Take a deep breath and relax........... 4
Dallers Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 As above, play the game. Relax and be patient. I would never chase up a second date that quickly I would want the girl that I just met and who shows interest in me to spend some time thinking about me and the longer you go without hearing from someone you are thinking about the stronger the feelings get. Remember he is nobody to you and you only just met and if you had not met you would be going about your life right about now not dwelling on the situation. Do just that. When he replies take your time to respond back, show interest but do not give the impression you are needy.
Author Sweetgirl28 Posted September 4, 2013 Author Posted September 4, 2013 Thanks. It just feels a little bit strange because he is the first guy I hung out with in a non-friends setting since I broke up with my ex back in May. I feel like I've grown out of these "games" that people play in the early stages. I'm not needy though. It's just the feeling that I wasn't able to "read" him during our hangout that keeps me wondering.
Dallers Posted September 4, 2013 Posted September 4, 2013 Thanks. It just feels a little bit strange because he is the first guy I hung out with in a non-friends setting since I broke up with my ex back in May. I feel like I've grown out of these "games" that people play in the early stages. I'm not needy though. It's just the feeling that I wasn't able to "read" him during our hangout that keeps me wondering. 'The game' is different from playing games. It is a natural thing to get the other person to like you and as a guy I would always play it cool even when inside I am totally smitten by the girl I had just met. He does not want to come across too interested but has made it clear that he is interested. I think you will hear from him if you wait, by chasing you risk the possibility of scaring him away. Men are just as complicated and weird as woman, we just do not admit it 2
Author Sweetgirl28 Posted September 4, 2013 Author Posted September 4, 2013 'The game' is different from playing games. It is a natural thing to get the other person to like you and as a guy I would always play it cool even when inside I am totally smitten by the girl I had just met. He does not want to come across too interested but has made it clear that he is interested. I think you will hear from him if you wait, by chasing you risk the possibility of scaring him away. Men are just as complicated and weird as woman, we just do not admit it Lol that sounds helpful. I wasn't sure if he was interested by texting me afterwards or just being polite. Anyway, I'm an ice princess in the beginning as well and I do need lots of time to think so we'll see. Thanks for your advice.
Author Sweetgirl28 Posted September 5, 2013 Author Posted September 5, 2013 It's been two days now and haven't heard from him so I don't think this will work. Pity!
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