jasminlauren Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 i went away on a football trip,he initiated meeting up as he was there too. And we ended up seeing him at a club. We was once again very drunk and the only way i can describe it, is he was "all over me". Dancing, kissing, holding my hand etc etc. he asked me if we wanted to stay at his hotel and i agreed. my friend by then was in a really bad state so he helped me get her home. He even asked permission to hold her hand to keep her upright. When we got back to his, we put my friend to bed on the floor and got into his bed. we didnt have sex. he made it very clear that he wasnt using me for sex and that if i was too tired we wouldnt do it. We spent the night talking, hugging, kissing as you do. it was really sweet. we messed around a lot had what we called "tickle wars". he was really sweet, we had cute little kisses, and he kissed all over my face. every time i yawned he kept asking me if i was okay, and kept kissing my forehead. he would do things like stroke my face and look into my eyes. he let me sleep in his top and in the morning we was just laying there and he wiped off my make up with his thumb (which i thought was adorable). We then went back to our hotel to freshen up and he said that we would see him later. Which we did. me him my bestfriend and his all get along really well. so we spent the day joking and laughing etc. when we first met them that day, he stood up so i could sit in his seat which i thought was lovely. (im sorry if im just listing things here) when we was walking to the ground i was talking to his friend and he asked me "whats going on with you and him then" now im not stupid, i know for a fact theyd already talked about it. so im wondering what this means? is he trying to find out for his friend? anyway i said nothing and laughed and he looked at me and said yeah right. i quickly moved the conversation on as i didnt know how to answer when i was so unsure myself. On the way to the ground, he held my hand for a while but due to the atmosphere i didnt mind that it wasnt for long. id had a bit to drink and he once again kept asking if i was okay, using his hand to guide me on my lower back. etc. he bought me fags and jokily said "look how much ive spent on you" with a really cheeky smile. after the game we was walking back and we was walking on our own holding hands. he asked me lots of questions about my life and my family. and he told me alot about his life and family. it was a pretty deep and long conversation. which made me happy because guys dont usually do that with anyone do they? we all went back to the club to look for my friends phone. however my legs hurt so we stayed behind. i was leaning on something and he wrapped his arms around my waist and put his head on my shoulder. and we stayed like his for a while. i knew he was leaving soon so i just wanted to cherish it. we then walked back to their hotel so they could catch their taxi to the airport as they were going on holiday to spain. we was holding hands and he squeezed it, so i squeezed back. half way back he wrapped his arm around my waist and pulled to be closer to him. we spoke about the football and he put his hand into my back pocket and i put my arm around his waist. and we didnt have to talk, it just felt so natural. when we was saying goodbye, i asked him if he wanted his top back (which i had on me) and he said no we can sort that out a different time if i wanted to. we then hugged for about 5 minutes and kissed twice. he asked me if the next time i was seeing him was the (so and so) away game. which i said yes, as we had made plans to stay at my hotel with me so i wasnt alone. we hugged once again and slowly let go of eachothers hands. (it felt just like a movie). i know that hes never been a good texter. Ive waited days for a text before. I don't mind that, i don't mind waiting. As he has already said he prefers phone calls.i dont know if its a positive but when he does message me, he always asks me questions. Im just confused as to whether he actually likes me or if hes just playing games with my head because we barely talk when we arent together, and im starting to get paranoid that hes like this with all girls. this trip was recent and i know hes in spain now but surely if you liked someone theyd make a bit more effort? like he reads messages then takes hours and hours to reply. is this something i should be worried about?
bahhhh Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 It sounds like he likes you. At least what you have given us from when you were with him. Some guys are just not good texters....A lot of the time, they are terrible. It always pisses me off. But I guess it can't be helped? I would not rule it out just because he is a slow texter. Maybe you can just straight up ask him? Or try to meet up again?
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