Woop1337 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I don't pursue women that have boyfriends. But I do treat women that admit that they are dating someone, like they are single. For the men here on this forum. If a woman admits that she is dating, do you let that deter you? Dating and being in a relationship, are two different things no?
BradJacobs Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I always ask how serious it is then make a decision. Not afraid to admit that I've been compelled to pursue someone in a relationship because she represented the best option at the time.
TB Rhine Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Depends - if she's seeing 3 or more guys, bail. She's an attention... well, you know... and she will always be that way. I.e., she'll have male 'friends' chauffeuring her around whenever she's not with you. If she's casually dating just one other guy, it could just be that two awesome dudes (yourself included) happened to ask her out, and she's letting both situations play out to see which one, if either of you, she hits it off with more. Honestly... I know this is not a popular opinion, but I'm not a big fan of the whole 'casually dating multiple people' thing. Us guys can't afford it, for one, which creates an automatic gender-based imbalance. For two - it just seems to me that if you agree to go out on a date with someone, you're doing so in good faith, because you don't KNOW for sure that things aren't going to work out. Maybe you'll end up with that person and maybe you won't. If you date more than one person, though, you know that somebody in that equation is going to end up getting hurt. That takes the good faith aspect out of it, for me, as you're automatically showing callousness toward at least one person's feelings.
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