Author Bittersweetie Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 In one of your previous posts you made reference to a career decision your husband regretted making while he was still unaware of your affair. How did you two discuss and resolve this situation? My H left a more lucrative position to move in order to be with me again. He told me that if he'd known what I'd done he probably would not have left that job. He had some bitterness in losing some money, but the truth is that he had had it with that job anyways. It was what was contributing to a lot of his anger so in the long run it was probably good he moved on. These are things we discussed in the aftermath of d-day. He found a job here, and it turned into something more and different which has expanded his skill sets, so he's fine with where he is right now. Sometimes he's even like, "I don't know why I stayed at that other place so long." But his successful career is a reflection of him; he would've done well regardless how we turned out.
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