Sex Goddess Posted January 6, 2001 Posted January 6, 2001 Hi I just got your question posted waaaaaaaaaayyyy below!!! You asked me about 4-8 orgasms during sex. Yes, those orgasms are all during intercourse alone, or by fondling the area by my partner. I didn't overnite go from no orgasms to being multi orgasmic if that is the correct term. It has been a process of probably 10 years or more, with no special trying on my part. I do not orgasm during foreplay, and do not usually orgasm in the missionary style, unless I am extremely into the guy. I just throw myself into the sexual situation and block everything else out. I also do NOT focus on having an orgasm. I think that totally ruins the mood. I think it is hard to have an orgasm when you are concentrating on having one. As far as me, I am just your average female. Pretty fit, but not hugely athletic. Age, early thirties. Also, I SWEAR I am not exxagerating, if this had not happened to me, I would not believe it, but I once dated this guy for a brief period of time, that could actually orgams(and dispense fluid), for about 4-5 times a night from like 9 PM to 9 AM. He was extremely sexually charged, and would wake me up in the middle of the night once or twice.... It was an incredibly sexual relationship with no other substance, however, I had NO earthly idea that a man was capable of coming that many times. NOw how bizarre is that? The men I have known(which aren't that many), could only come twice, if they were having a good night, and that was spaced out with a couple of hours in between... But this guy was like a machine.....However, he was not by any means my best lover..... Sex does get soooo much better as you get older. Do other ladies (or gents) agree with me? I didn't think coming 4-8 times was that many, what is the normal amount ladies? I'm curious now
Stargazer Posted January 6, 2001 Posted January 6, 2001 Thanx Sex Goddess, There's hope for me yet! I dream of having an orgasm during intercourse.........I can certainly have a clitoral orgasm, that's another beast. I think you may have hit the nail on the head with your comment about not focusing on it. Will try! Many Thanks again Warm Hugs
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