danielle_wils Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 It's been ages since me and my ex split up I'd say about 8 months, and it's coming up to the date we first started dating which means it would be a year. I honestly just can't cope no more, ill admit that I'm a lot stronger than I was when we first split up but I still aren't over him and I feel I never will be, he was my first love and it's just hard seeing him out with other girls. I have been talking to this other boy to get my mind off things and he started talking to me about wanting a relationship with me but I just don't think I'm ready because I feel if I do go out with him that it means it's an end to all the chances of getting back with my ex. Sometimes I just wish I could go back and never of net him because the pain of having your heartbroken is awful and it's also not letting me try talk to new people as I'm scared of getting hurt again
L1ght Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 It's been ages since me and my ex split up I'd say about 8 months, and it's coming up to the date we first started dating which means it would be a year. I honestly just can't cope no more, ill admit that I'm a lot stronger than I was when we first split up but I still aren't over him and I feel I never will be, he was my first love and it's just hard seeing him out with other girls. I have been talking to this other boy to get my mind off things and he started talking to me about wanting a relationship with me but I just don't think I'm ready because I feel if I do go out with him that it means it's an end to all the chances of getting back with my ex. Sometimes I just wish I could go back and never of net him because the pain of having your heartbroken is awful and it's also not letting me try talk to new people as I'm scared of getting hurt again 8 months is a long time. Recovering takes longer the longer we take to accept the situation. Once we do accept it then we have to sit there and feel the pain which should only last about 2-3 months before the intensity dissipates and we start to feel relief as we can put our minds onto other things. So....accept its over and feel the pain properly for a little while until you start to feel less and less. Ride the storm cos you will make it through to the other side. Good luck.
Omei Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I feel if I do go out with him that it means it's an end to all the chances of getting back with my ex. Its almost been a year and hes dating hes not coming back, and if he did why would the chances be ruined if you dated? He's doing it without worry of "chances" prob because thats not even on his mind, move on from him and live your life.
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