People who starve communication at the start of a relationship...

[Emilia]

Wow...so I guess it's really done with huh. It's not even so much 'accepting' the bahvior or having some deep rooted issue. It's just I feel some people do these things not because they aren't interested, but they themselves have some kind of fear of something.

They can't fear you when they don't know you. You need to face the fact that you were rejected and not repeat the cycle over and over again.

2 years ago, I met a guy on 1 date. It didn't go anywhere and he told me a few days later that he was seeing someone. Well, 2 years later...this guy is aggressively hitting me back up. The catch was, he was like 50 pounds heavier and looked like absolute ****. I have no idea what happened to the cute guy I met before. It was surreal. He then cited the reason he didn't take it further was my ****ing shoes! He chose to wear flipflops to the date.

This is meaningless. People recycle others all the time, it means nothing.

I need to just stay away from White folks and Mexicans. They neurotic like that.

Hm, this comment makes me think the guys that try to put a distance between you and them have got it right. Putting it down to race and ethnicity is an extremely bizarre way to judge interpersonal dynamics. You need to take responsibility for your behaviour.

[thefooloftheyear]

They can't fear you when they don't know you. You need to face the fact that you were rejected and not repeat the cycle over and over again.

 

This is meaningless. People recycle others all the time, it means nothing.

 

Hm, this comment makes me think the guys that try to put a distance between you and them have got it right. Putting it down to race and ethnicity is an extremely bizarre way to judge interpersonal dynamics. You need to take responsibility for your behaviour.

 

 

This..^^^

 

Get a grip on yourself, OP...Good grief..

 

TFY

[SubliminalSessions]

I don't like texting or calling. If you sent me happy labor day I'd try to send you a happy labor day back. If I liked you I'd want to set dates and meetings ups with you but I wouldn't be chattering with you constantly about it. I'd be really annoyed if you were getting annoyed at me because I don't talk to you enough. I hope you're really hot because this habit of yours is annoying.

 

It's not about chattering constantly about it. He would engage in a conversation with me, and not finish it. That's rude, inconsiderate, anti-social, crazy, it's neurotic. that's what ****ing annoying. Most people would be annoyed by that. If you're not man enough to cut **** off, it can't be that annoying. Let's just be clear on that.

 

They can't fear you when they don't know you. You need to face the fact that you were rejected and not repeat the cycle over and over again.

 

This is meaningless. People recycle others all the time, it means nothing.

 

Hm, this comment makes me think the guys that try to put a distance between you and them have got it right. Putting it down to race and ethnicity is an extremely bizarre way to judge interpersonal dynamics. You need to take responsibility for your behaviour.

 

I said that race thing to be facetious. there's some truth to it, based on my experiences though. Based on factual experiences, they seem to have a problem with no problem. Most of the ones I've dated, it never goes anywhere because they operate in crazy mode 24/7. It's almost like they bi-polar or something. Seems to be a biological trait of certain race. They are with you promising you the world 1 minute, and then turn around and turn into anti-social bitches the next. You ain't have to be all fake with me if that's not what you want. That's the kind of neurotic behavior I encounter.

 

I wasn't rejected because he never said, "I don't want to be with you". All he has said is that he wanted to be with me. All he said was he wanted to go on a date with me. I have not seen him online in 10 days. He is not looking for other guys and at other profiles.

 

No response doesn't necessarily equate to rejection.

Edited September 5, 2013 by SubliminalSessions

[SubliminalSessions]

You know what you all...you were all right. This ****ing idiot was so full of ****.

 

I seen him last night, out at the club. Now, mind you...all the while he's telling me all this **** as if the world is just coming down on him, he's going thru so much this, that and the 3rd...and I see this mother ****er out with some preppy ass looking White boy.

 

I wasn't even going to backtrack into my teen years and approach him and make a scene. He knows 1 of my good friends, and we were right next to each other when my friend greeted him.

 

This ****ing coward ass mother ****er couldn't even look me in the eye, he was so caught dead on his lies and ****. I walked by him 1 time by the bar, and said, "excuse me, I need to get a drink" He walked clear away.

 

I'm just like, it's not even worth it. If you that scared and intimidated by me that you can't even tell me what it really is, that's got nothing to do with me.

Edited September 6, 2013 by SubliminalSessions