RangersFC Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Hey everybody, I'm going to make this as short as I can. This is an ongoing story for the last 5 years and I've posted about it in my previous threads. So, me and this girl started talking years ago. She's always had a man but we were very close. We stopped talking for about 4 years and about a year ago we started working together again. I haven't dated in a long time and really I just want a chance with her. She confessed how she is so stressed out and can't take her man's bs anymore and things between her and I are amazing and she should be with me. Confessed she is in love with me and vice versa. That was in march. Fast forward to now. She has finished university and has left my work place. We talked non stop but a month before she left conversation kind of faded a bit. So, she quit and got another job, broke up with her man 3 weeks ago and just told me yesterday. I never bombarded her with any questions and just let her talk. Anyways, we don't talk more than once a week, she tells people that its hard leaving cause we were best friends. But she just seems very quiet and not a quarter as talkative as months before. I think there might be a new guy at the other place and I assume that it's just a rebound and maybe wants a clean slate. Somebody that doesn't know her past and her previous life. I love this girl with every bit of my soul and have for years now. I just want some feedback on how to play this. I'm giving her the space and I never text or call her first anymore. I'm being supportive, but not pushing myself on to her. I understand that she is just out of a 6 year relationship and I wouldn't expect her to come running to me. She needs to be single and have fun for now. But why not hang out at least once since she left or talk a little more than 2 minutes once a week. Maybe I'm just venting on this post so I just want to say thank you for listening Feel free to ask any question you may have or read previous threads. She loved my friends and my family and same as her family to me.
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