cvvc Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Last Thurs Aug 22nd I met up with C, we had a fight on July 29th and hadn't really spoken since (yes, 3 weeks of hell, for me at least). We decided to be in an exclusive relationship after we took a week break late in June, he came after me and begged for another chance. I decided to give him said chance after 5 days of talking. He gave me the key to his place, Skyped with me every night when I was away visiting my family, bought me a $1000 camera, talked about moving in together in December, said he loved me and that he knew things wouldn't be easy but that he wouldn't go anywhere. After I came back from visiting my family, we had the best week, a really off weekend, an argument on Monday night and we didn't talk for 3 weeks. He did not call or text or anything on my birthday, which was a week after the argument. He actually left town. The previous week he told me several times he was not going to go out of town because he wanted to take me out on my birthday. I texted him and said I missed him, and asked if we could do something fun on the weekend, two weeks in this situation, he said yes, that it sounded like a plan if he was not going to visit his parents, whom he had introduced me to a month into our dating relationship. He left town to see his parents and we didn't see each other that weekend, I was still hopeful that we would be able to work things out. He sent me a text on Sun night when he got back asking if we could go out for drinks on Thrus, to which I said yes. He didn't contact me until Thrus evening to decide what to do and his texts seemed very cold. Upon meeting at a pub, he didn't even get up to hug me or anything, we talked and I tried to seem happy and not let him see how much I was hurting and missing him, I was trying to go out with friends in the mean time and trying to still have a life. He asked me several times if I was having a good summer and after I said yes for the third time, he said he was having a lot of fun at work and that we seemed to do better apart and said "I'm done". The whole thing caught me by surprise and I wonder if he will come around. How can someone go from saying they love you, give you the key to their place, buy you expensive gifts, etc... to saying their are done? Anyone, help please?? Thanks!!
HerTransition Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Hey hun, I figured I'd respond to you because my thread also is getting views and no replies. I am not 100 percent sure how long you guy have been together but I think, and I'm sorry to say, that maybe he has found someone new. From what I read I don't think you did anything wrong. I'm very sorry and hope you get through this. Take Care.
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