djrdei Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 Ok everyone hang with me here this is a long and complicated story. A year ago I began talking to this girl. At the time she was the girlfriend of one of my friends. Shortly after I started talking to her, she broke up with her b/f......who did not treat her well at all......and she started to come on to me. Well this really made her ex mad and he beagn to give me and her trouble. Because of all the trouble, my parents did not like this girl because me talking to her caused problems so they told me I couldnt date her. For about the past 9mths, we would see eachother without my parents knowing, and we became very attached. Now, her parents believe i am not giving her a fair chance because my parents disapprove of her, so her paernts are not letting her go out with me as much. I have been told by her parents that if i resolve the problem with her and my parents, that they will be ok with it all. I believe that my parents dont know her for who she is and that they just associated the problems from her ex were her fault. I really have feelings for her and she has the same for me. Just reciently she even got my sister a job at the place where she works. How should i bring this up to my parents? How can i get them to accepth her and just let me live my life? Thanks for the help!
Merin Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 Ask your parents to spend some real time with her.. tell them you really care about her and like her.. and that while you understand them not wanting you to get involved in problems.. that it wasn't that she is a bad person, she just happened to be involved in a not so good situation. Might help if maybe you could get her parents and yours together with the two of you for dinner.. and allow your folks to get to know hers? Good Luck
Author djrdei Posted November 17, 2004 Author Posted November 17, 2004 Im thinkin about just bringin her home with me and just dealin with my parents later. I really have feelings for her and i dont wanna loose her.
Merin Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 Originally posted by djrdei Im thinkin about just bringin her home with me and just dealin with my parents later. I really have feelings for her and i dont wanna loose her. My advice.. Don't. I know you care about her.. so do this in a way that isn't going to further alienate your parents in thinking this girl is trouble. TALK to your parents. Be resonable.. Be mature.. tell them how you feel about her, and ask them to give her a chance to get to know them and vice versa. You might just be suprised at the reaction you get;)
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