alexjames Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 A work mate of mine introduced me to a girl recently. we have been talking for a few days and I took her out shopping yesterday. She is 18 and I'm 21 (not worried about the gap). She is absolutely beautiful, stunning, on the inside and out. The only trouble, is she has a strict family who don't like her going out, especially with boys, it was hard getting them to agreeing to Yesterday. I really like her, and she has never had a BF which makes it hard for me to talk to her sometimes as she has no experience or anything so her family don't let her out much etc. She wants me to meet her family so they can see what I'm like etc. We have said we will be friends at first, but have admitted we both like each other but she don't want anything more yet. I know anything sexual is a hell of a long time away but I'm not that bothered about that, but I just feel we won't really be able to ever be a couple with her family the way they are with her! She is only ever really allowed out with her brothers and her mum won't let her in my house or anything, because she don't know me very well etc, how can a relationship ever start with them like that?!
hopelessromantic123 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Try to meet her family first and then figure things out from there. They will be more comfortable with her spending time with you if they actually know who you are. Good luck
Author alexjames Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 Yeah, I have asked to meet them, and I can sometime soon. I have even told this girl that I would like to spend some time alone with her parents so I can ask them where and when I can take her, the best ways to treat her and things like that, just so they know I am caring and will look after her. Hopefully after a while they would trust me and let her out with me more etc. I mean, I like sex as much as the next person, but only when the 2 are both ready for it and would never rush her into it, if I had to wait a year then I would, I just really like her, I really wanted to hug her and kiss and hold her hands Yesterday! I just have to make her parents know I can be trusted and know that I would never do anything to possibly hurt their daughter
hopelessromantic123 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 This is so sweet! It looks like you've got things figured out. IMO this relationship could work. You seem willing and I'm guessing she feels the same. Once the situation with her parents is sorted out things should get better.
HappyLove Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Looks like your the perfect guy for a girl and family like that. What they want is for their daughter to be respected and safe and you're willing to do that. There are men in their forties who don't have the guts to meet a woman's family face to face. Bravo to you! You are a confident guy seemingly respectful guy, sounds like a great match. I say go for it!
Author alexjames Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 Thank you everybody I am hoping to meet her family sometime this week and sit down with them and talk and see what they have to say I think she wants to remain as friends for now which is fine and there is no chance that I'd even think of rushing her into more, but I think she likes me aswell, so who knows what may happen in the future? They are going on a family holiday in a few weeks and she said she might leave it till after then to make a decision, which is fine with me. I've only ever had one GF but I really do like this girl, she is so cute and sweet! I just hope her family likes me and realise that I will never hurt their girl
darkmoon Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 her family will want her to be a virgin-bride
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