crederer Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Last week I went to the bar and got a girls number. I completely forgot about it as I was quite drunk. Then a few days later I went out again and got some other girls number. Anyways, on Saturday the first one texted me saying "Hey, I thought you were going to call me and take me out a hot date. Did you forget about me?" me: "No, I didn't forget. Short cutie with blonde hair, right? How could I forget?" (me totally thinking it was the other girl) Her: "no, I'm 5'5 brunette. Good luck with finding her though!" me" I know, I was just trying to look like a big man, making it seem I'm a hit with the ladies" Her: haha sure.... Me: "I'm also really good at back peddling....is it working?" Her: "I guess I'll buy that!" Anyways, we went on texting for a bit, kind of in a flirtatious way. I told her I'd call her in a few days to ask her out proper. She said "Okay! :)" Then yesterday we texted shortly and she added me to facebook and I now remember who she was. She's pretty good looking girl. Now my issue is, I don't know if she has low self esteem or something (I vowed never to date a girl again that I felt was insecure)? I mean if you were a good looking girl and some guy responded like that, would you still be cool with going on a date unless you had low self esteem? Or did I manage to back peddle effectively there? OR am I just over thinking stuff?
CptSaveAho Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 she wants to have sex with you... stop being a moron 1
Author crederer Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 You think it's purely for sex? I'm not exactly a Brad Pitt look alike and women tend to like me more for my personality. Not usually the type of guy that has women wanting ONS with (at least not from attractive sober women, she wasn't drinking the night we met). I'm more so the kinda of guy girls want date because I treat them well and make them laugh, not cause they're like "OMG i want to eff this guy!"
fanine Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I think it is best not to over analyse it and just go out and meet her. I mean, it is not like that text had happened after a first date or anything. She may well have picked up other guys numbers too over the past week or so. Nothing is exclusive, so just enjoy the date and see what happens...
CptSaveAho Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 you met a girl in a bar... so sex she wants a "hot" date with you... so sex I could go on and on and on and on... you lead... it will happen one of my favorite sayings is "you are your own worst enemy" and your 2 posts in this thread are you making yourself be the enemy... call her up tomorrow night and ask her out for dinner then invite her back to your place for dessert, have a can of whipped cream ready (use your imagination)
veggirl Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 lol I cant believe she still wants to go on a date with you after you thought she was another girl. You're a shoo-in, don't even worry about it.
bentleychic Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I think it is best not to over analyse it and just go out and meet her. I mean, it is not like that text had happened after a first date or anything. She may well have picked up other guys numbers too over the past week or so. Nothing is exclusive, so just enjoy the date and see what happens... Yup. She's probably doing the same thing you are. Have fun!
MrTurk Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 lol I cant believe she still wants to go on a date with you after you thought she was another girl. You're a shoo-in, don't even worry about it. Why is anyone surprised?? Its the same scenario where that other guy texted the wrong girl....and it later led to marriage. Being sober and polite is obviously overrated and unnecessary anymore when making that first impression on a woman. .
Versacehottie Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 you both handled the backpedal VERY WELL. I would only be concerned that she reached out to you and asked if you "forgot about her". Could be a red flag if you are worried about insecure/desperate. But ask her out and decide on the first date.
Shaun-Dro Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Last week I went to the bar and got a girls number. I completely forgot about it as I was quite drunk. Then a few days later I went out again and got some other girls number. Anyways, on Saturday the first one texted me saying "Hey, I thought you were going to call me and take me out a hot date. Did you forget about me?" me: "No, I didn't forget. Short cutie with blonde hair, right? How could I forget?" (me totally thinking it was the other girl) Her: "no, I'm 5'5 brunette. Good luck with finding her though!" me" I know, I was just trying to look like a big man, making it seem I'm a hit with the ladies" Her: haha sure.... Me: "I'm also really good at back peddling....is it working?" Her: "I guess I'll buy that!" Anyways, we went on texting for a bit, kind of in a flirtatious way. I told her I'd call her in a few days to ask her out proper. She said "Okay! :)" Then yesterday we texted shortly and she added me to facebook and I now remember who she was. She's pretty good looking girl. Now my issue is, I don't know if she has low self esteem or something (I vowed never to date a girl again that I felt was insecure)? I mean if you were a good looking girl and some guy responded like that, would you still be cool with going on a date unless you had low self esteem? Or did I manage to back peddle effectively there? OR am I just over thinking stuff? Yea, you're overthinking. This broad wants to chase you a bit and is in to you because you didn't chase her, as she anticipated. Good luck.
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