Philosopher Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I have been on a few dates recently and am getting a bit confused on when I should make the kiss. First women: went out on three dates with her. For all three of the dates there was a lot of flirting and she seemed very interested. At the end of the third date I tried to kiss her. She said it was too soon. Tried again on the fifth date, this time she said we should get to know each other more first. On the sixth date she friend-zoned me. Second women: went out on two dates with her. Both dates went fairly well. At the end of the date I kissed her on the cheeks. I got the impression she wanted a full blown kiss. Later when I asked her out for a third date she said she was not interested. Third women: had a good date with her with lots of free flowing conversation. At the end of the date I tried to kiss her on the cheeks. She mistook it for a full blown kiss and said we should just be friends first. Fourth women: went on one date with her that lasted around two hours. There was quite a bit of flirting however not a huge amount. At the end of the date I kissed her on the cheeks. Again I got the impression she was expecting a full blown kiss. Texted her after the date. I did not hear back from her until 20 hours later and then she said she felt no attraction to me. It seems like when I try to kiss too soon I get friend-zoned. However if I don't attempt any kiss early enough I just rejected and never hear from them again . When is the right time to kiss a girl?
todreaminblue Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 if a girl looks at your lips a lot while talking to you at the end fo the date its time...thats your cue..... take it......but without tongue..there is no set fast rule of when to kiss...but read body language i would think....but then soemtimes when i am a little deaf......if someone speaks quietly i will look at their lips .if i miss what they are saying...i read lips...smilin...but if you are on a date and she looks at your lips it could be you need to speak up or she wants a kiss....chances are she wants to kiss you or for you to kiss her.happy kissy facin.....no tongue on repeat.........deb
Author Philosopher Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 if a girl looks at your lips a lot while talking to you at the end fo the date its time...thats your cue..... take it......but without tongue.. Thanks for your advice. Anyone else got any words of wisdom?
KathyM Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I would suggest a kiss on the lips at the end of the first date if the date went well. No tongue. If the date didn't go well, it's not likely she will want to be kissed.
TB Rhine Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Yeah, definitely a kiss on the lips by the end of the second date, at the latest. The girl who strung it out until date six either wasn't interested, or lost interest because you weren't aggressive enough. The girls you cheek-kissed may have taken it as a brush-off. I'm surprised you're actually hearing things like "I'm not interested" and "I'm not attracted to you." In my experience women will almost never be that upfront. 2
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