saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Take me with you "sister" All I can see in my mind right now is the movie "sister act" PMSL!
Author Kozmo Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 After a while the shock of it will wear off. I PROMISE YOU! You will still be sad but you won't have the panicky and need to know feelings. Trust me. I had a full blown panic attack less than a week ago and I came and posted here. It passed and yours will too! We are all here for you! Keep posting. We will help you through this misery because we all understand it. I kinda feel like this is my "family" of broken hearts. The Manson family!!!! JUST KIDDING!! LOVE YOU GUYS! i'm hoping it will. this is really depressing. thanks for the help, its good to have someone to talk to who knows exactly what i'm going through.
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Unfortunately Kozmo.. we all do... it's why we're here too. It does get easier I promise x
hopefulfaerie Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Yes. We all know your pain You can message me anytime you need to talk. I am on here daily. Probably will be for a while. It's horrid but it will end. I myself want to have a WONDERFUL Christmas so I am determined to heal!!! I will probably still feel that little sting but not near as bad. hang in there friend! Thinking of you (( hugs ))
Author Kozmo Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 No. You're broken up. She isn't obliged to reveal any information to you. If the knowledge will help you move on, why not just assume it's true anyway? Then you can move on. You're looking for excuses to contact her. Bargaining. You have to push through. i just don't want to jump the gun, and assume she's this cheating, lying b***h. i want to walk away knowing she was the honest good person she said she was.
Simon Phoenix Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 i just don't want to jump the gun, and assume she's this cheating, lying b***h. i want to walk away knowing she was the honest good person she said she was. Then tell yourself that and walk away. This reeks of you finding an excuse to make contact.
Sugarkane Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 If she did cheat she probably won't admit to it. 1
LostOne1 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 exactly it won't change anything. i'm not trying to get back with her. i'm not going to be upset about it, but knowing the truth will help me heal.. if you get what i'm trying to say. its like getting the monkey off my back and finally accepting it. no it won't.. you know I thought my ex left me for someone else. Truth me told after a few months I just didn't care. Why? Because I don't need to know if she is with this new guy or not. All I care about is finding the next girl that will love me and STICK with me even through the bad times. Screw her and who cares if she left you for someone else? Her loss not yours! She did you a favour dude! Now some other dude can deal with the baggage! 1
Sugarkane Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I'm sorry I don't think you will get your answer, unless you can get concrete evidence. Speaking from someone who's been in your shoes.
Chi townD Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Dude, take stock in what you know. You were dating her, but you suspected something was "weird" between her and some other dude. She breaks up with you and tells you that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone....blah...blah.... Then, you find out she's dating the dude you were wondering about. Dude, if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck..... If you confront her with what you know.....tell you what, I'm gonna save you some time. Here's what she's going to say, " He's just a friend and he isn't the reason why we broke up. Besides, it's none of your business what I do and who I see. Because, we're not dating anymore." There! I saved you some time! Dude, do you honestly think she's going to say to you, " Yeah, opps! Sorry, I am dating this guy and I need to get rid of you so I could do that."? NO WAY is she going to sell herself out and make herself the bad guy.
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