lastking Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 when this whole break up happened two months ago, my life was in shatters. I had been with my girlfriend for 9 years and didnt think I would recover quickly from the break up. But after applying No contact and limited contact, I feel really good about myself and although we are friends on FB, I take a week or so without ever looking at her page. I am slowly loosing interest in her and moving on with my life which is good depending on how you see it. Lessons that I have learned so far after the breakup. - Keep busy : I have been frequenting the gym and it has helped me feel good about myself - Go out and socialize/date - I've hung out with a few girls after the break up and I think this has helped me a lot - Think positive- Everything happens for a reason. I recently read my zodiac and it said " A relationship change will end up being for the best even if it hurts at first" My ex-girlfriend came to my house a week ago to drop off some stuff and we talked for a good 2 hours. This took me by surprise because this was the person that didnt want to talk to me at all after the break up. What lessons have you learnt from your break up/ No contact. Share...Thanks!! 2
tart6245 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I did strict no contact when my gf of 2.5 years and I broke up a year and a half ago. It hurt terribly at first, but ended up helping me tremendously. I felt great until she contacted me about 40 days after we split up wanting to be friends. I ended up rejecting her overtures and we went back on no contact for a few more months. Now we are on good terms and talk sometimes. I definitely recommend no contact, especially if you do want a decent relationship with that person in the future.
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I have never understood how people can go from relationship to friends. I mean sure if you love someone but you aren't "in love" with them anymore it could possibly work. But I would always be thinking, I remember when WE did this and I remember the time's in bed ect ect ect I couldn't do it, that's just me though I'm glad it worked for the pair of you x 1
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