Frinky Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Hey team. Looking for some end of dating scenario help here. Been dating a guy (same sex relationship) since April - today he told me that it wouldn't be going any further and that from very early on there just wasn't that sexual spark there. Fair enough, I can accept that - it's a personal thing. What's bothering me though is that he confessed today that he'd had a date at the weekend (which he says was awful). Last week he was telling me he had a quiet weekend coming up with nothing planned. I can handle the lack of sexual spark but being lied to I'm finding hard to take. My ex that I split up with a couple of years ago (after a 12 year relationship) was an habitual lier. It's bothering me that the same thing seems to be happening again. Any thoughts on how I move on from this would be gratefully received - I'm feeling somewhat unloved and perhaps unloveable at the minute.
Author Frinky Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 He did lie - he told me he had a quiet weekend coming up. He could have told me last week it wasn't going anywhere before he had his date, that would have been the honest thing to do.
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