joe86 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 So, a couple of weeks back my ex left me (full story) and obviously all the advice here was 'Go NC!'. So after a week of not getting in touch with her I saw a retweet on my twitter feed from her; #Leo never get too attached to anyone because they know that attachments leads to expectations and expectations leads to disappointments. I still don't really acknowledge day-to-day horoscopes, but for personality traits I think astrology is pretty accurate. Hopefully next time I will notice when a girl doesn't commit & bring it up before I get too involved because I get disappointed & commit easily being a Gemini! This wound me up, and left me wondering, did she want me to see that? I don't know if I told her when we BU that I was disappointed, but on Friday thats exactly how I felt. So on Saturday morning I woke up & just had to text her to try and judge how she is so just fired off a generic 'hey, how are you?' message and she got back to me, said she was ok and asked how I was, and how work was (I had a job interview just before the BU). I let her know things were good and I'd had a change of plan with work. Now this is where the important bit happened... She said something like 'thats good. I'm please for you'. Now I don't know about you guys, but 'I'm pleased for you' screams 'I'm over you' and 'friend-zone' at me. So knowing this helps me to kill the hope and move on. On Saturday night, after a day on the beer I saw a girl in a bar who I had 'met' online last year and felt like I got on with. I didn't acknowledge her as I was fairly tipsy & she was with friends, but it got me back in to that 'there are girls out there' mindset. Now maybe if I see her out again I'll speak to her. So I guess my main reason for sharing is for those of you who don't like the NC approach because you've got those niggling feelings in your head that you just need an answer or a help shifting.
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