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so to all of you here , we broke up we have broken hearts mostly the dumpees i suppose..

 

we must get on if we want to live but. what we left behind is just an ex? or sth more?

 

i know it might sound bull**** especialy to all of you who have rasional thinking but guess what i have too. i am a logical man. i like science and the truth.

 

i will separate the post in two parts. both of them are experiences i lived and i give my word i speak the truth,

 

the first part is the weird thing of de ja vus .

 

have you ever dreamed or remembered things actions experiences that you never lived and somehow you experienced later in life?

 

i have, and i was shocked, i used to fall asleep with my ex literally kissing each other(sounds weird i know but listen) while i was in the state of sleeping but not slept fully i saw some dreams of us fighting and splitting at a mountain place.,. i couldnt understand where this was until some months later we argued hugily at the exact same place at my hometown after somedays i realised that i have forseen it before it happened i was shocked...

 

the other thing is when you think or dream the same with the one you love.. does sth like that ever existed ( i mean you will think i am stupid saying these but i lived them) sometime we saw the exact same dream witch i didnt say i saw too cause she might think i was lunatic... i was thrilled.... and yes it happened i was scared by it, so i guess it might be some kind energy through magnetic field while the brain nerves think? i am not an expert but i lived it.

 

the second part is the death savior

 

i was driving tired and i felt asleep at midnight while going like 140km/h i was on belt and the car is a new benz so i wouldnt die i guess (but i might too ), while i was driving i felt asleep cause i was tired and by the time i did my ex called saying she felt a chest stress of i was if i was ok.... when the phone rang i woke up and took a turn last sec to avoid crashing the side of the highway.....

 

 

so now please tell me what are all these cause i will go crazy....

i lived both of them and they are true,,,

 

how explain? there is for sure sth going on when we love or fall in love with our souls i am 100% sure for that,

 

please comment

 

-john

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I was in love with my ex.

 

Dreamed I was a millionaire with her....woke up... f*ck I wasn't...worst was I had to get ready for work and earn that money

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so to all of you here , we broke up we have broken hearts mostly the dumpees i suppose..

 

we must get on if we want to live but. what we left behind is just an ex? or sth more?

 

i know it might sound bull**** especialy to all of you who have rasional thinking but guess what i have too. i am a logical man. i like science and the truth.

 

i will separate the post in two parts. both of them are experiences i lived and i give my word i speak the truth,

 

the first part is the weird thing of de ja vus .

 

have you ever dreamed or remembered things actions experiences that you never lived and somehow you experienced later in life?

 

i have, and i was shocked, i used to fall asleep with my ex literally kissing each other(sounds weird i know but listen) while i was in the state of sleeping but not slept fully i saw some dreams of us fighting and splitting at a mountain place.,. i couldnt understand where this was until some months later we argued hugily at the exact same place at my hometown after somedays i realised that i have forseen it before it happened i was shocked...

 

the other thing is when you think or dream the same with the one you love.. does sth like that ever existed ( i mean you will think i am stupid saying these but i lived them) sometime we saw the exact same dream witch i didnt say i saw too cause she might think i was lunatic... i was thrilled.... and yes it happened i was scared by it, so i guess it might be some kind energy through magnetic field while the brain nerves think? i am not an expert but i lived it.

 

the second part is the death savior

 

i was driving tired and i felt asleep at midnight while going like 140km/h i was on belt and the car is a new benz so i wouldnt die i guess (but i might too ), while i was driving i felt asleep cause i was tired and by the time i did my ex called saying she felt a chest stress of i was if i was ok.... when the phone rang i woke up and took a turn last sec to avoid crashing the side of the highway.....

 

 

so now please tell me what are all these cause i will go crazy....

i lived both of them and they are true,,,

 

how explain? there is for sure sth going on when we love or fall in love with our souls i am 100% sure for that,

 

please comment

 

-john

 

I think you need to stop drinking because it's getting to you :laugh:

 

There is nothing there, no special force, no "true love soul mate malarky" it is simply sheer luck.

 

Don't drive sleepy, you'll ruin your new car!

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it happened 2+ years back ,,, what are the possibilities of this to happen?

 

i mean honestly i am not the man that drinks actually i dislike it

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Darling, you are looking for reasons to believe that she is coming back.

 

Please re read your previous thread. There is only so much help we can give you, can't help you if you don't listen can we?

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she aint comming back i know, i was curious though if this soul matching can be repeated in life with other people .....and be so deep

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she aint comming back i know, i was curious though if this soul matching can be repeated in life with other people .....and be so deep

 

I very much doubt it, as I said it's more likely to be sheer luck!

 

Cat with 9 lives thing

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It doesn't mean we are destined.to be together romantically in this lifetime. If you believe in soul connection it may mean they bring us opportunities to evolve..and when next we meet things will be different. Never think that true soul connection is same as proof that you should be together now..the universe may have other plans for both of u.

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i have had prophetic dreams and i dont drink...no one will believe that you have them unless you tell them before it happens.....unless they have had experienced dreams like this themselves...

 

 

 

i have had an ex breakup word for word what he said to em in a dream shocked me stupid when the dream eventuated....i cried when i woke up from that dream and in that dream,

 

 

 

 

when he broke up with me i already knew what eh was going to say before he said it...and i knew i woudl not fight to keep him......... i knew what i would say....felt like i was being controlled and led.........i have had others.....they arent actually fun...would prefer not to dream and have it happen...... i believe it happens because i am the one who has to look after my family and it normally involves family and or loved ones i dream about....i use to think that anyway god was guiding me with stressful things abotu to happen or going to happen.....i dont anymore think its god.........last dream i had that i beleive to eb prophetic is my daughter.......yesterday she came to my room and said mum i need your help you have to help me.....she is hanging out with a guy who is really bad and she is vulnerable........and i know ......i have to go see him ....tell him to stay away..i said what i had to say to her....stay away from him or i have to go see him, you are banned from goign anywhere near him dont do it...dont force em into dealing with him myself...you know he is bad.........i actually felt that this message would come over a phone call but she said ti to me in person........i am going to fix it.....thats why i believe i have prophetic dreams....to protect my family.....and yeah......no one would probably believe that i do and i accept that...its hard to beleive.....story of my life...point is....i do because i am the only one who can believe it besides family...because i am the one having the dreams no one else is....my sisters boyfriend died in her bed....i dreamt it....deb

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hi

so i was seeing her arguing and dumping me and since the dreams i had this gut feeling that was not wrong might have been god universe subconsius to tell me to leave first but i was stubborn and clingy over her the women that thought was giving me life...... how bad i feel now

 

she dumped me... jesus christ you do not close people like they are t shirts ....

 

i have had prophetic dreams and i dont drink...no one will believe that you have them unless you tell them before it happens.....unless they have had experienced dreams like this themselves...

 

 

 

i have had an ex breakup word for word what he said to em in a dream shocked me stupid when the dream eventuated....i cried when i woke up from that dream and in that dream,

 

 

 

 

when he broke up with me i already knew what eh was going to say before he said it...and i knew i woudl not fight to keep him......... i knew what i would say....felt like i was being controlled and led.........i have had others.....they arent actually fun...would prefer not to dream and have it happen...... i believe it happens because i am the one who has to look after my family and it normally involves family and or loved ones i dream about....i use to think that anyway god was guiding me with stressful things abotu to happen or going to happen.....i dont anymore think its god.........last dream i had that i beleive to eb prophetic is my daughter.......yesterday she came to my room and said mum i need your help you have to help me.....she is hanging out with a guy who is really bad and she is vulnerable........and i know ......i have to go see him ....tell him to stay away..i said what i had to say to her....stay away from him or i have to go see him, you are banned from goign anywhere near him dont do it...dont force em into dealing with him myself...you know he is bad.........i actually felt that this message would come over a phone call but she said ti to me in person........i am going to fix it.....thats why i believe i have prophetic dreams....to protect my family.....and yeah......no one would probably believe that i do and i accept that...its hard to beleive.....story of my life...point is....i do because i am the only one who can believe it besides family...because i am the one having the dreams no one else is....my sisters boyfriend died in her bed....i dreamt it....deb

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hi

so i was seeing her arguing and dumping me and since the dreams i had this gut feeling that was not wrong might have been god universe subconsius to tell me to leave first but i was stubborn and clingy over her the women that thought was giving me life...... how bad i feel now

 

she dumped me..you do not close people like they are t shirts ....

 

 

 

some people do unfortunately, dont give a crap when its over it is well and truly over and they are blunt as hell dont care and move on......

 

 

whether you have dreams or you dont have dreams people get hurt every second of the day and with that.....people hurt people....nothing you can do but learn and grow and move on.....needing someone is different to clinging to them....wanting to spend your life or time with someone is not clinging it is how you feel and its best when they also need and want you as well...needs to be equal....

 

 

 

 

 

 

obsessing when its over is detrimental and clingy.....you cant cling to a boat that has already set sail.....not gonna work...the boat is gone...so build a new boat when you are ready when you have healed and set sail yourself with another relationship ..............dream or no dream its over for you and for your ex..its gone now.......i suggest a bit of therapy maybe....talk therapy really helps.......i prefer groups because i can sit and listen and when i am ready i speak plus you get to meet others and you sort of help each other........one on one i sit there and say ....sooooooo.....nice weather huh....they smile, and I smile awkwardly....and then....silence..for a while.......lol....try groups get out meet others dont dwell and i wish you the very best that life and love has to offer...which is a damn lot if you let it give .....hugs....deb

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i am with what you say. i agree .. the thing is i am afraid, i am afraid of other people.i feel i betray her,,,, i pain like hell .... if god wanted me to pass hell there must be a reason.... my soul is destroyed... cant lough.cant dream.it is full of bitter. anxious memories of our life...i really dont understand why people do that.. i would never let go a human that gave me trust soul and flesh.... it is just wrong in my believings...

 

thanks for the support i apreciate it,.

 

what you think about karma?

do they get it eventually and see what they have done?

when i started the relationship i was anxius with her cause i couldnt believe she made her ex try suicide over her indiference and the way she dumped him like he was an object.that was getting us to fight all the time at start, i just couldnt understand how she did it, just not.

-john

some people do unfortunately, dont give a crap when its over it is well and truly over and they are blunt as hell dont care and move on......

 

 

whether you have dreams or you dont have dreams people get hurt every second of the day and with that.....people hurt people....nothing you can do but learn and grow and move on.....needing someone is different to clinging to them....wanting to spend your life or time with someone is not clinging it is how you feel and its best when they also need and want you as well...needs to be equal....

 

 

 

 

 

 

obsessing when its over is detrimental and clingy.....you cant cling to a boat that has already set sail.....not gonna work...the boat is gone...so build a new boat when you are ready when you have healed and set sail yourself with another relationship ..............dream or no dream its over for you and for your ex..its gone now.......i suggest a bit of therapy maybe....talk therapy really helps.......i prefer groups because i can sit and listen and when i am ready i speak plus you get to meet others and you sort of help each other........one on one i sit there and say ....sooooooo.....nice weather huh....they smile, and I smile awkwardly....and then....silence..for a while.......lol....try groups get out meet others dont dwell and i wish you the very best that life and love has to offer...which is a damn lot if you let it give .....hugs....deb

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what you think about karma?

do they get it eventually and see what they have done?

when i started the relationship i was anxius with her cause i couldnt believe she made her ex try suicide over her indiference and the way she dumped him like he was an object.that was getting us to fight all the time at start, i just couldnt understand how she did it, just not.

-john

 

 

 

hey hurts2death are you very young......

 

 

 

sounds like this woman leaving you might be the best thing.......my ex was pretty cold to em too when he broke up with me........not getting into it....i survived and forgave him..he treats me very well now........i dont believe in karma...i do believe people can realize they have made a huge mistake though and try and change how they treat you and others........you really do need to move on, you wont know how she did what she did to you ever ....you just know that she did it......so let it go ....and do things you love to do ....

 

 

it may be one day in your future you will get an apology like i did from my ex where he recognized everything i tried to do in the relationship.......and then said sorry.......he knows he messed up...that may come.....but it will come when you move on with dignity and grace.....dont contact her, when you think of her try to do something constructive and just for you, to help you heal...dont think about karma...revenge is not as good as you feeling better and moving on.......healing you is what is better than thinking abtou karma for her...so not damaging to another but healing to you......so i hope god keeps you smiling soon....and i wish you well.....deb

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great post..

 

i really really really thank you..... i try to do what you say and i feel i am getting there,,,,,

 

if you have time take a look at my story

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/420756-nothing-pains-much-nothing

 

 

john hug deb :)

 

hey hurts2death are you very young......

 

 

 

sounds like this woman leaving you might be the best thing.......my ex was pretty cold to em too when he broke up with me........not getting into it....i survived and forgave him..he treats me very well now........i dont believe in karma...i do believe people can realize they have made a huge mistake though and try and change how they treat you and others........you really do need to move on, you wont know how she did what she did to you ever ....you just know that she did it......so let it go ....and do things you love to do ....

 

 

it may be one day in your future you will get an apology like i did from my ex where he recognized everything i tried to do in the relationship.......and then said sorry.......he knows he messed up...that may come.....but it will come when you move on with dignity and grace.....dont contact her, when you think of her try to do something constructive and just for you, to help you heal...dont think about karma...revenge is not as good as you feeling better and moving on.......healing you is what is better than thinking abtou karma for her...so not damaging to another but healing to you......so i hope god keeps you smiling soon....and i wish you well.....deb

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