kwistof Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 She has initiated flirting: the type of flirting that isn't over-friendly, but communicates interest. It's kind of hot/cold though; when I initiate flirting she seems unresponsive, like she has low interest, and it just feels like I'm not having much effect. 'Cause it seems like even if a girl is playing hard to get, even if she acts cool and aloof, if she really liked him she'd be overjoyed when she gets attention. So why's this girl giving classic flirting signals and indicators of interest, yet seems unresponsive when I initiate? Can anyone make sense of that behavior?
TigerCub Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Is it possible that when you flirt you are doing it in an awkward or really subtle way, that she doesn't even pick up on the fact that you're flirting? 1
Author kwistof Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 Though she isn't completely unresponsive, a lot of times it's a delayed reaction. If I flirt, she might not react much, but will be flirting a lot the next day.
SillieBillie Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Maybe explain a little more... What flirting techniques are you using? Is she shy? Are you shy? How does she flirt with you?
pyramid Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 She likes to flirt, maybe just has a flirty personality, but doesn't see you as dating material. She enjoys getting you to respond to her, but then feels guilty and doesn't want to lead you on, so doesn't respond when you initiate.
phineas Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 She likes to flirt, maybe just has a flirty personality, but doesn't see you as dating material. She enjoys getting you to respond to her, but then feels guilty and doesn't want to lead you on, so doesn't respond when you initiate. You mean an attention whore. OP, stop flirting with her & just man up & ask her out when next time she flirts. She will either accept or realize her game is up & stop wasting your time. 1
Woop1337 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Like what Phineas said, ask her out, on a date. Then you'll know if she's all talk. Based on personal experience, women that really like you, are consistent with their flirting.
PogoStick Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 She's a classic tease. She loves the attention and seeing you fall for her. Don't expect to ever get anywhere with her.
todreaminblue Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I would say she doesnt realize you are flirting...because of today being the day it is....guys are often more subtle with flirting more in tune with the line between .....he is flirtign with me...he is sexually harrassing me....he is coming on too strong mix........so subtle sometimes...is just to subtle to pick up...i understand why.....sorta sucks though.i prefer straight up...if i dont liek the guy or what he does i just say so and drop it and tell him to drop it.....its simple...less complicated and so much easier to read a person when they com eotu with it and say ...i like you wanna date you.......six words...no ambiguity..........deb
Author kwistof Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 How do you play a tease's game? Since they're obviously manipulative, and the game is based and switching between hope and frustration, to keep the guy weak and dependent, how do you turn the game around and give them a taste of their own medicine? 'Cause if it's just a game, no harm in playing along and turning it around.
todreaminblue Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 How do you play a tease's game? Since they're obviously manipulative, and the game is based and switching between hope and frustration, to keep the guy weak and dependent, how do you turn the game around and give them a taste of their own medicine? you sit at home aloen with an action movie ,a bowl of popcorn, your hand down your pants on a recliner and imagine she is doing the same thing...which she isnt by the way.....she is out doing kissy face with a guy who says it like it is and means what he says...manipulating gets you no where no place really fast....deb
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