irc333 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I was wondering, in the beginning stages of dating, a male friend told me that long conversations on the phone , between dates, can kill a woman's interest. I have never heard of this, but is there some truth to this?
Midnight_Princess Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Its never bothered me unless its a pointless "what you doing? Nothing, you? Nothing....soooo....yeah" conversation. If the conversation flows and theres something to talk about i find it nice hes thought of me and taken the time to talk. 1
phineas Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 If it's pointless banter then yes I believe it can kill attraction. However, the point of not giving a woman phone-time & pushing for face-time is to determine if she is genuinely interested or just soaking up your attention. women who are interested will meet with you. Women who aren't will try to talk your ear off on the phone or try to text you all day about stupid stuff. 1
PogoStick Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 However, the point of not giving a woman phone-time & pushing for face-time is to determine if she is genuinely interested or just soaking up your attention. Agreed. She should be starving for attention and wanting to learn more about you. Conversation/texting should be limited to setting up the next meeting. Otherwise you waste all of your conversation, then when you meet you have nothing to talk about and come off as boring.
Dolphono Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Yes, if one party is just not that into the other person.
fanine Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 From a female perspective I would not like long phone calls in the beginning either. Like the other poster said I would rather wait and talk when we next meet. Communication is also so much about body language and facial expressions etc. I need to see that, even now tbh I don't like long conversations with my boyfriend on the phone unless we can't see each other for a long time.
todreaminblue Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I was wondering, in the beginning stages of dating, a male friend told me that long conversations on the phone , between dates, can kill a woman's interest. I have never heard of this, but is there some truth to this? ummmm......noooooo...lol......if i am interested in knowing a guy...it is them that normally say crap been talking on the phone fro an hour......where did the time go.....i always do it to a guy i am interested in first up ill call about something random and see if we can keep a convo going........and with all my long term relationships...the convo keeps going....then an hour is gone..they hav eno ideas hwo they talked to me for an hour so easily........when i hang up i smile and say yep to myself....this guy will talk to me and i can talk to him we mesh.....i normally only do this once......then recently i have changed my mind and just decided to send text messages and embrace my inner bimbo by signing texts "kay dot" "like radical dude"........kidding.....not really.....smilin atcha...deb
FitChick Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Communication is important to me to keep the relationship alive. I need intellectual stimulation for a man to hold my interest. All of my important relationships were with men I could and did talk to for hours, by phone or in person.
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